Submitted by admin on Wed, 2013-05-22 07:32
Q: Kiya khala ki larki ke sath nikah ho sakta he?
Submitted by admin on Mon, 2013-05-20 15:40
Q: I am really lost and wanted help from Islamic point of view. Me and my husband are Muslims. We first met 3 years ago and my parents approved of my husband and I agreed. He did not have a job then, but I trusted Allah and we had our nikah a couple of months later. Since then our lives have been very disturbed. There has been good times. But my husband did not have a job until a year after our our marriage. I was a practicing doctor hence I was supporting us completely. Which was stressful as it was unconventional but I did not mind as I believe risq is in Allahs hand. When my husband got the job, instead of offering to contribute in our expenses, he started sending money to his mom (who lives with the other brother and has property and pension to support her). This continued for a couple of months then finally he started contributing after we had a talk. He was only contributing less than half of the expenses and continued to send money to his mom and brother. A year and a half later, he swapped jobs and needed a car. I volunteered to pay for it since he did not have money. Again believing that as a wife it's my duty and Allah will reward us with barqat in our rizq. He wasn't making any money in his new job so I have been contributing fully again towards all the house expenses. This has gone on for 6 months. Alhamdulillah now he has been offered a very good job which he is due to start in a weeks time. Although his monthly pay is less than mine but I said to him that he should contribute towards our expenses before and save for himself and pay off his debts before contributing any money for his mom as they are non his dependants in any way. Also, we are expecting a baby, and I'll be on maternity leave for 1 year and will only get full pay for three months, half pay for next three months and no pay for 6 months. I was worried about our unborn child's expenses etc and saving for his education etc. When I said that to him he got upset and started shouting at me. I agree that my tone got a bit harsh but Allah as my witness, it was no where as loud as his. Now we have not been talking and sleeping in different rooms for last 3 days. I have been praying to Allah to give us Hidaayah. But I am so hurt that after all what I have done for him, he always places my needs after his own family's need. Also, since our marriage, I have never ever asked for any extravagant gifts like gold etc. I can buy expensive stuff Alhamdulillah with my pay but I have been saving the money for us and now about to buy a property, in which he is not contributing a single penny. I have no one to talk to and have been reading about wife's right in Islam. And making dua to Allah for help. I don't hate him, he is or was very loving. He is a good person who prays all his salats. But I feel I don't have the sabar to give in any more. I will have to kill my inner self, my personality and beliefs to come out and say its my fault when it isn't. I am so stressed as I am expecting and keep thinking of the worse that this is not going to end well. Please help and make dua. Ameen
Submitted by admin on Mon, 2013-05-20 15:26
Q: What is the procedure of doing faskh to annul the nikah?
Submitted by admin on Sun, 2013-05-19 11:44
Q: I have read in kitaabs that a woman in haiz must wear clothes that prevent transfer of body heat during relations with husband. Please can mufti saheb explain this and give examples of clothing that would be fine to wear. E.g are tights fine?
Submitted by admin on Sat, 2013-05-11 08:41
Q: If a boy tells a girl isn't you are my wife infront of two baaligh men and the girl replies yes then are they regarded to be married?
Submitted by admin on Sat, 2013-05-11 07:47
Q: I am married in court in community of property with my first wife and with my second wife I just made nikaah. How will this legally affect my inheritance? I know the Shari'ah laws, but what are the legal laws?
Submitted by admin on Sat, 2013-05-11 07:32
Q: I need help. My age is 22 years and my parents are seeking a groom for me! Whenever some grooms family likes me and the matter is taken ahead, some kind of obstacle comes up at the real end, and my parents have to back out. This has happened with me thrice now and people are beginning to pity and sense something fishy. I would like you to know that the proposal is rejected by us in the end as some problem occurs from opposite side! Everything appears perfect at the beginning and towards the end some twist pops up. Please help me what should I do? Am I effected by evil eye or magic? Or is it that my time hasn't arrived yet?
Submitted by admin on Thu, 2013-05-09 09:51
Q: If the walimah takes place after seclusion instead of consummation of the marriage would the sunnat be fulfilled?
Submitted by admin on Thu, 2013-05-09 09:07
Q: I have a question regarding the consent of a wali in a hanfi nikah? I have done extensive research on the topic and in many instances it states that a wali is advisable but not entirely required in all circumstances. Can you clearify this for me?
Submitted by admin on Thu, 2013-05-09 07:48
Q: Kia larka larki apna nikah khud parh skty hai bina kise gawa ka?