Marrying a boy who engages in salaami and mawlood

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2017-12-16 06:16

Q: If there is a boy who engages in Salaami and Mawlid, but everything else about him is favourable like akhlaaq and deeni consciousness, is not marrying him because of the 'soofie' side of him a legitimate reason to not marry?

A: A marriage is a lifelong relationship and for the relationship to be enjoyable it is important that the spouses' thinking is the same. If there is a contradiction in this respect then it is going to end up in disaster, fights, and quarrels.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

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Nikaah & Marriage Issues›Masaail pertaining to the Wali and Compatibility between spouses

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