Premarital relationship

Q: I want to ask that I am in contact with a girl for the last 2 years. We have never seen each other. I was convincing my parents for the last few months to talk to the parents of the girl. My mother however got convinced to talk to her mom. The girls mom is convinced to get her married to me. But the problem arises here.

1. She is from another state of india and i am from kashmir different traditions.

2. Her family background is not as good as ours.

My parents somehow are afraid and not that positive about her. My mom agrees and disagrees. I want to do nikah as i am 27 and she is 29. My parents dont seem too happy about this nikah but they are somewhat going along.

A: Do that which your parents and elders are in agreement with.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)