Premarital relationship

Q: Me aik larki k sath relation me hn. Hum log 4 years say aik sath hain me peechly 2 saal say Pakistan say bhr hn. Jab me Pakistan me tha to sub kuch thk tha magar jab say yahan aya hn to Sheytan kay hamlon aur apni galtion ki waja say us larki ko bina kapron k daikh chuka hn me sachy dil say usky sath shadi karna chahta hn magar ab masla yeh ha k meri abhe 1 bari behn ki shadi ni ho rahe is waja say me rishta ni bejh sak raha aur jis larki ko pasand karta hn wo bht jazbati larki ha wo aik so suicide ki koshish bhe kar chuki ha. Wo larki ameer gar say ha aur jab bhe shadi ki baat hoti ha to wo mehngi chezon ki he baat karti ha jab k me aik middle class gar say hn aur wo chahti ha me apny gar walon ko chor k usky sath kahen akaila rahn jo me nahe kar sakta. Ab me agar us say alag hota hn to wo khud ko maar lay ge aur agar sath rehta hn to shayad uski zarooriat puri na kar sakn aur jab tak sister ki shadi nahe hoti tb tak rishta bhe nahe bejh sakta. Meri rehnumai farmaen me kya karn me us say shadi karna chahta hn magar kuch samajh nahe arai kya karn?

A: Jo bhi soorat ho khud kashi haraam he. Uski wajah se khud kashi halaal nahi hota. Agar kisee wajah se tum uske saath nahi reh sakta to kisee aur jaga shaadi karle. Uski khud kashi ka gunah tumhaara sar par nahi hoga. Baaqi shaadi se pehle eik doosre se milna baat cheet karna ye sab haraam he.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)