Breaking off a haraam relationship

Q: I love a person for 5 years and he is well aware of it. As far as I know he doesn't love me and we just have simple chats. I am seriously in love with him and want to marry him in the future. What am I supposed to do Islamically? (Consider the fact that he doesn't love me). 

A: Immediately break off this haraam relationship and seek Allah Ta'alas forgiveness.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

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Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada


Q: But I want help in the matter that I love him sincerely and want to marry him. What should I do so that he will love me back and Allah unites us in the future? I really love him and want him to be my husband.

 

A: The actual future is Jannah. Hence, behave in a way that you can be united in Jannah. In this world don't ever have any contact with him without marriage. The fear is that you may lose your road to Jannah. As a result you will become a failure in this world as well as in the hereafter.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

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Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)


Q: Replying to my previous question I was to told to behave in a way so that I can be united with the person I love in jannah. Please clarify how should I behave?

 

A: Start off with the following daily program at home for at least 15 minutes in the mornings and evenings:

1. Ta`leem of Fazaa'il-e-A`maal, Fazaa'il-e-Sadaqaat and Bahishti Zewar.

2. Recitation of a portion of the Qur'aan Shareef and some zikr.

3. Du`aa at the end of each session.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)