31 years old and still not married

Q: I am 31 years old and still not married. I am finding it hard to find a suitable match looking for religious girl. I am not in control of my self for doing mastrabution. I don't want to do it and I make tauwba also. I don't want spoil my self infront of Allah tala. I am daily reading salatul hajaat at least 3 times in a day giving sadqa and making dua also. Please guide me for this and give me some wird so I can achieve my target. I really want to become muttaqi.


A: A Mu'min, in whichever condition he may be, should turn to Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى). The solutions of all problems lie in the hands of Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى). In order for one to receive the mercy of Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) and barkat in his life, one should ensure that he is leading a life according to the Sunnah and not displeasing Allah Ta'ala at any time. Be conscious of observing purdah, guarding the eyes and the tongue and performing the five daily Salaah in the Musjid with Jamaat on it's prescribed time. Recite رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ after your five daily Salaah and constantly make dua that Allah Ta'ala bless you with a pious wife.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.


Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)