Maintaining family ties
Q: My husband is too involved with his sisters. They don't like me and put him against me. My husband is ok with me but they say stuff to him so that he does not love me and he starts supporting them and disrespecting me. Any wazifas? They are evil. Is there any wazifa so I can get them out my life?
A: In Islam we are commanded to try our level best to maintain family ties even though our family severs ties with us. You should treat them kindly and respectfully even though they are abrupt and rude towards you. In this way Allah Ta'ala will improve your condition. Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) once said to the Sahaabah: "Should I not show you the best and most sublime conduct in this world and the Hereafter. The Sahaabah replied, most certainly O Rasul of Allah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam), do inform us. Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) then said join ties with those who sever family ties with you, and continue to bestow your favours upon those who deprive you and forgive those who have oppressed you."
Recite the attached Dua which appears in the Hadith for uniting the hearts.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
عن أبي هريرة قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ألا أدلكم على مكارم الأخلاق في الدنيا والآخرة قالوا بلى يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال صلمن قطعك واعط من حرمك واعف عمن ظلمك (شعب الايمان البيهقي #7725)
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Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
Q: Its been 5 years I have been nice to his sisters but they still try to split me and my husband up. They cause problems. They do the same to the other brother and his wife. They are obstacles. i just want my husband to support me and respect me alone and in front of them. I never say anything to his sisters. I am so nice to them. Can I have a wazifa for my husband to support, respect, love me and put me and my kids first. Mufti his sisters hate me, they have made it clear. They are enemies. I prefer if they stay as far away as possible because they want my husband to leave me and I have kids too.
A: You go on fulfilling your duties and obligations towards them and assign your affair to Allah Ta'ala. Allah Ta'ala will turn the heart of your husband towards you and make him treat you with love and kindness. Commence the five A'maal in your home daily to attract the mercy of Allah Ta'ala. The five A'maal are as follows:
- Qur'an recitation
- Taleem of Fazaa'il-e-A'maal and Fazaa'il-e-Sadaqaat
- Bahishti Zewar
- Zikr
- Collective dua.
Insha Allah this will prove effective in bringing about the true understanding of Deen in your life and the life of your family as well as attract the mercy of Allah Ta'ala towards your home.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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