Q: One morning, twice I dreamt of a young beautiful girl that I do not know. I am trying with Allah Ta'ala's Fazal after returning from Umra to keep my my gaze lowered. I was doing that in my dream.

Q: 

1. I have Running shoes and what happened is that in these western toilets when you flush the water drops pop out and go far out so you should at least stand a meter away because the outside ones do not have a lid. After I had flushed, I saw a drop on the leather portion of my running shoes (its more like a suede and in the inside of the shoe it says made with synthetic leather) so now I just let it dry because I knew it couldn't go through all the way to my shoe because its synthetic suede. I walked around with it for a couple of days. It rained one day and that spot got wet but water did not flow on it. Yesterday it rained again and the thing is there are 4 little holes on the top part of the suede piece the covers the tip of the shoe. They are about 1 centimeter away from where I remember the drop being and they are on the elevated portion of the shoe and the spot where the drop fell is on the lower portion. My question is enough rain fell on my shoe that the whole suede portion was covered. Now does the whole suede portion become najis? Now when I took my shoe off, the part where the holes where, the sock got wet. So is that najis? I have a feeling this is all waswasas. 
2. My second question is with regards to Ghusl. When I do Ghusl I take too long and I know I waste a lot of water. I just want to know certain things with regards to pouring water. When say there is najasat on my thigh, I pour water down my thigh once. Does it become clean and the water that falls off at what point does it become najis. What ends up happening is I wash the front part of my leg from my waist down then the back then the front going back and forth and then I end up wasting close to 5 minutes in that and end up showering for 15 minutes. Before it was 45 minutes. I would like to reduce it to just 5 mins to 7 ​mins max. Please help me.

Q: Please advise if this statement constitutes a talaaq? This email was sent to me by my husband.

“I am just contemplating whether to give all three talaaqs at once and get done or do it in stages but the point is the same I think all three and its done and dusted”

Q: What is the hukam of a person who goes to a saahir after he could not been cured from the doctors and they too advised him to take up a Comorian treatment. What will be the state of his Iman be according to the Ahul sunaah and what about his previous ibaadats too?

Q: Is the nikah valid of baligh girl who married a boy with mehr and proper witnesses but her mother is displeased. Can such a nikah be null and void?