Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: Is there any virtue in attending a nikaah?

Q: I am a teenager of 20 years old. I have been watching videos of nudity and masturbate at the same time on my handset. This has been happening for a quiet number of years now. It really bothered me and I always pray to Allah and repent to Him anytime I committed such. But still I will go back again and do the same thing even after repentance. Sheikh I don't know what to do now, I almost hate myself now. It has become a part of me. Please assist me with possible solution, Thank you.

Q: I have a question about the validity of Nikah. I loved a guy and my sister and dad found out about it, without allowing me to tell them anything and express my feelings they got me engaged to my cousin without my permission but I don't really understand what sort of nikah it was because they never asked me but I still love the person I am involved with and I want to get married to him because I know he is the right guy for me. If I get married without the consent of my parents, will my nikah with that person be valid? Please I need the answer as soon as possible, and also if I want to run away from the house and come back afterwards when everything gets back to normal, just need to know if my nikaah will be valid and accepted in Islam?

Q: If a brother touches his real married sister with lust, does it effect it her relationship with her husband and what about the relation between brother and sister?

Q: My wife was in the last day of haidh, then we got close and I used my finger to pleasure her until she felt satisfied. I don't know if blood had stopped completely or there was some drops?

Q: If a daughter looks at her parents having sex through a small hole. She was young and saw her dad's penis erected and looked for a little while and then felt discharge within her while looking. She can't remember exactly if there was lust with in her but she just looked at her mum and dad having relations and saw her dad's penis erected. But can't remember exactly if she had lust or she looked just so. But she said she don't think she would have lust for her dad. Is her parents nikaah valid?

Q: When making nikaah, is it the girls choice to choose the Musjid?

Q:

1. Is it Sunnah to distribute dates after a nikaah?

2. Is it Sunnah to throw theses dates at the people after a nikaah?

Q: Is it wrong for a mother to seek some assistance from her sons, of which all three are working, even if her husband is working? My sons feel that I must first divorce my husband before they will help me or he must sell his car so he can have more money to maintain me. I only asked for R200 from each of them towards my medical costs. Please advise me if I am wrong in asking them for assistance.

Q: I would like to know, I am separated from my elder daughter's mother, and my daughter lives with the mother. My daughter made nikaah a few days ago, and she used consent from her mother's current husband, although I maintained her all through the years, but when she graduated from university, and started working, she distanced herself from me. There was a proposal for her, which I was informed about, but as time passed, approvals, wedding dates were set by her mother, without consulting me. Subsequently the nikaah happened last Saturday. I was not informed by either her or her mother about the date. I would like to know is it permissible for her to use her mother's current husband as a person to give consent for the nikaah?