Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: There was a time before I knew of whispers of the devil. I should think what if  Prophet Muhammed (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) or someone else wants the women that I want or I should not pursue to marry a women because I have great love for her ,she's beautiful, etc and maybe Prophet Muhammed (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)  or someone else wants her. I should also possibly think other stuff in this regard. I may have said stuff in this regard, will I be forgiven for them and are these thoughts whispers of the devil? 

Q: Can I pray for a non-muslim guy to accept Islam. I want to get married to that guy if he accepts Islam.

Q: An old man is suffering from erectile disfuntion. No medical help works. When with his wife, can he mastubate to ease his desire?

Q: Give me a dua so that my husband loves me.

Q: Does the daughter in law have to observe purdah in the presence of the father-in-law after her husband has died? (Meaning the father-in-law was the father of her late husband)?

Q: Please can you tell me all the things that need to be done and duahs etc to be read on giving birth?

Q: I want my husband to follow Islamic way of living and I want to stay apart from my mother in-law and father in-law. They don't follow sunnah. They all are modern and away from Allah. I don't want my child to follow the wrong path. Please suggest to me any wazaif so my husband agrees and keeps us in a different house.

Q: If a wife leaves for another country for more than 10 days for work with out her husband even though work is not relevant to support the home or personal expenses. It's just for outing and career development. After the husband forbade her from going, if the wife did not listen and left home without any mahram, what does such a wife deserve from the husband or what is the punishment according to Shari'ah for such a wife?

Q: I want to marry a man who is paralysed. He got spinal cord injury. My family is against my decision. Am I doing some thing wrong? Is it a wrong decision? Please tell me. I am so tensed.

Q: My daughter is 12 years old and she does not listen to me. She has very bad behaviour. Something been done to her. Please could you help me?