Marital rape
Q: What does Islam say about marital rape? Does the husband get sin if he hurts the wife in the process?
Nikaah & Marriage Issues
Loving one's wife and children for the sake of Allah
Q: When we say to our wife or children "I love you". Should we have the intention for the sake of Allah I love you?
Massaging one's private part with medical oils
Q: If someone is sexually not powerfull enough and not healthy, can he massage his private part with suggested oil to increase power and also to increase the length and width of the private part with the intention to satisfy his wife? Please Guide is it haram to do such a thing?
Girl's family sending a proposal to the boy
Q: I have a question regarding sending a marriage proposal. In Islam, does the marriage proposal have to come from the boy's party or can the girl's family send a proposal to the boy?
Couple sitting in the same room during nikaah
Q: Is it a requirement in Islam that the man and woman sit in the same room during nikaah?
Can a Muslim child be a flower girl?
Q: Can a Muslim child be a flower girl? It's a Muslim couple getting married.
Time of walimah
Q: Please advise how exactly is a nikah consummated. Is it necessary for the couple to perform intercourse or even if they slept together that shall be sufficient to perform walimah.
Court marriage
Q: My question is regarding my marriage. When I met my husband I wasnt paying much attention to religion so we married in court as civil marriage. My father and mother left me alone in another country so I didn't have any wali present on the day we got married. Now since I learned more about Islam and I am concerned, I would like to know if our marriage is valid?
Purdah from one's nanas mama?
Q: Do I have to do niqab from my mums dads (my grandads) mums brother, so my nanas mama?
Equality between wives
Q: My husband has 2 wives. I am a working lady and share 60-70% of my and my kids' expenditures with my salary and job, but the other one is a house wife who is totally dependant on my husband. My husband spends one night with me and the other night with her. I work from 7 am to 5 pm. But my husband has broken shifts. He is free in the afternoon, so everyday he goes to my cowife's house in the afternoon because I am not at home and from there he goes to work again. On the way back to my cowive's house, he visits me for an hour everyday.
My cowife says that it is unfair that he spends time with me from her night. She also argues , "He spends the afternoons at my house because you are not available, it is not my problem. You can leave the job and stay with me in my house. Otherwise he should not visit you when it is my turn." She says that Allah will punish me for all this.
Please tell me where I am wrong? Shall we divide my available time half-half between me and my cowife or what?