Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: I am now marrried for 13 years. Unfortunetly during my wedding, my father in law had gotten ill. He passed away the day before my wedding. We had cancelled everything and just made the nikaah and fed the guests. We have always wanted to have a good wedding but that had not happened. Our nikaah was mixed with very big loss and most of the elders could not attend. All these years I have yearned for a proper opportunity to be a bride. If we would like to have like a reception or gathering is that Islamically allowed?

Q: I have a topic I would like to speak about that I've been trying to read upon but simply can't find anything about it. I recently got married alhamdulilah. Me and my wife spend a lot of time together and alhamdulilah we're looking for a house as soon as possible but I have a feeling we won't consumate the marriage (intimacy) till a long time down the line. I'm just not a sexually active person. I adore my wife and enjoy my time with her so much that sex is never on my mind and she is the same. Is it haram or wrong to wait till the perfect time even if it takes 3-6 months to have sex? 

Q: With all due respect, I would like to ask if a wife is not in condition (emotionally or physically) to have intercourse with husband. Can a husband still have intercourse even if it looks like a rape or if husband is angry and does the action forcefully without any consent or willingness of wife. What does shariah say about it. 

Q: If a girl says to a man that you are my father in law, does nikah happen between the man’s son and the girl?

Q: If a girl and boy gets married without any witnesses, the nikah is invalid. In this case, does the boy have to divorce the girl or there was no marriage in the first place?

Q: Is it compulsory for a girl to live with her mother and father in law ?

Q: My Muslim friend married a Hindu guy. She also has a baby with him. It's already 4 years but her husband does not want to accept Islam. He is very good and caring. My friend is an orphan. She continues her Namaz and Quran. What must she do?

Q: How can we inculcate Islamic values in our child (as a teacher or mother) and how do we preserve it in them? 

Q: Is it permissible for women to take contraceptive pills at all?

Q: I am married to my cousin (mother's side) 6 years ago.This was a pure arranged marriage and neither of us had any likeness apart from the fact that we were cousins before marriage. We both try to make salaah on time and we take care of each other as well.

My question is that what does Islam say if a husband has no physical attraction towards his wife despite so much efforts to feel attracted to her but still no feelings. During intercourse he only gets aroused sexually by imaging other women. Otherwise its not possible for him to get arouse sexually.

Kindly guide me what to do as this is killing me from inside. I don't know how long I can live like this. Besides this we have no arguments and no fights. She takes good care of me and I do the same, but it's only this one thing and it's happening for more than 5 years. What should I do?