Sunnats of nikaah

Q: I was secretly married to my husband since 2009. Till then I meet him at his home, where his mother also stays but she doesn't have any idea. We enter his home secretly. Sometimes his brother helps us but as it is so many years his mother knows (we believe) I go to their place secretly but doesn't say anything. Is it right for me to continue this act? I am ashamed of it but he is my husband and I can't say no to him. He told me he would marry me soon, may be this year. I need your advice.

Q: I am getting married soon, Insha Allah. Please provide me with the step-by-step sunnah way of nikkah and what is required to make the nikaah valid. Also, what is the difference between a wali and waqeel, and who would suffice as a witness for both bride and groom?

Q:

1) Is want to find out the correct procedure of a nikaah/waleemah.

2) What is the sunnat method, what are the sunnats of a nikaah.

3) After the nikaah is performed, how does the groom meet the bride? Is it done in privacy or infront of the family?

4) Is there a salaah that the bride and groom read together? Is there any such thing as giving the groom milkshake/sarbat?

5) Any advices for the bride and groom?

Q: After marriage what dua should be recited in the ear of the bride and is it important?

Q: What is the ruling of distributing dates at the time of a wedding and what is the evidence for this?

Q: Inshallah my nikaah will be done soon. My future wife said that it is sunnah for the girl to stay at her parents house on the first night after nikaah without her husband. Is this true?

Q: What is the sunnah for a nikah. What are the prohibitions and recommended actions?

Q: What are the steps and duas of the first night with ones wife after marriage in urdu or hindi language?

Q: Is it Sunnah to perform nikaah in the Musjid on a Friday after the Jumu'ah Salaah or after the Asr Salaah?

Q: Is there a sunnah period in which to consummate the marriage. If yes, what is the period?