Masaail relating to intimacy

Intercourse

Q: For a newly married couple, how many times is advisable to have intercourse? We were married for seven weeks. My wife was in haidh for two weeks (the week of the marriage and after returning from umrah). Then she went for umrah for 3 weeks and we had some issues for the other 2 weeks. Thereafter we had relations 6 times in the next 3 days (morning and evening). My wife is extremely worried weather this is normal? Previously Mufti Saheb had advised on a published Fatwa twice a week but if a married couple were to have relations every day or twice in 3 days would this be a problem or is it natural?

Spouses excreting on each other during sexual relations

Q: Is it permissible for the husband and wife to scat on each other? Scat is where the spouses excrete on each other during sexual intercourse for attaining pleasure and sometimes the excreta is used as lubricant. My relative has said that he heard his sheikh saying it is permissible as long as it is done with the spouse and not with strange women. Please elaborate as I am confused.

Anal sex

Q: Since the time when my wife gets pregnant, since then she feels intense pain in vaginal intercourse. We have treated for it a lot but no medicine is useful. Last time when my wife got pregnant I managed somehow to live without intercourse for 10 months (during his pregnancy) but this time its not easy for me to control myself from intercourse. But in vaginal sex she suffers unbearable pain so is there any way that I can do anal sex for my pleasure as well as for her sake. Please guide me what Shari'ah says in my case.

Having intercourse during haidh

Q: One of my patients came to me and was asking me regarding the side effects on the person for husband and wife that what will happen if some one does inter-course with his wife during her mentrual cycle to be exact 4th day of the cycle and was asking me the what is the Islamic point of view on that, is it harm/ or sin if someone does intercourse with his wife during her mentrual cycle? Please give your expert advice.

Anal sex

Q: I have made a terrible mistake. I had sex with my wife from behind three times. I took an oath from Allah not to do it and still did it knowing it's wrong. I am very ashamed. Please tell me what to do as soon as possible. If I have to do kaffarah and what else for forgiveness.