nikaah

Biwi ki taraf se pareshaani

10 years ago By admin

Q: Mein aik shadi shuda banda hoon. Meri shaadi ko das saal hoye hein aur woh bhe love marraige hey. Saat saal pehley doosri larki meri life mein aai aur us se taluk itna barh gaya ke mujhe se aik bht bari ghalti hogai. Mein ne usey kaha mein tum se shadi karoonga tab woh bhe raazi thi mein ab tak uskey sath hoon lekin ab woh mujhey biwi se duur rehney ko kehti hey warna mujhse shadi nahi karegi aur mujhey kosna shru kardeti hey. Halankey mein dono ko khush rakhsakta hoon lekin woh dono aik doosrey ko bardasht nhe kar raheen. Dono aik dafa zehar kha kar hospital bhe ja chukeen hein. Mein bht pareshan hoon mujhey plz koi mashwara dein ke mein kya karoon. Biwi ko chorna nhe chahta dono ke sath insaf karna chahta hoon aur sath sath yeh ihsas bhe hey ke uski zindagi meri wajah se barbad hoi hey to uska bhe khayal karoon. Mein ne uska dil rakhney ko hamesha yahi kaha ke haan mein duur hoon apni biwi se. Ab dono meri izat nhe karteen aur dono chor kar janey ko tayar hein. Halankey mein dono ko khush rakhna chahta hoon. Mujhey plz koi hal bhe bataien aur koi dua bhe.

Fear to speak to one's parents regarding nikaah

10 years ago By admin

Q: I am 25 (male) from a well-off family and presently pursuing PhD in earth sciences with a decent fellowship but you know the environment here at the university not very pious (there is co-education in the university) and one finds it very difficult to control his emotions. Nikkah seems to be the best solution to prevent oneself in such a dirty environment but the problem is that I am not able to communicate the same to my parents. Now I request you you if you could spent some moments of your precious time to suggest me how to approach my parents for the same. I am ready to marry any girl from any nationality unless she is a pious and practicing Muslim.

Wo larki jo maa nahi bansakti, us se shaadi karna

10 years ago By admin

Q: Mai aik larki se shaadi karna chahta hn. Hamary ghar waly taqreeban raza mand hain is rishtay par. Masla ye hai k mjy larki sy pta chala hai k wo maa nhi ban sakti. Mery yaha par do sawal hain:

1. Kya ye baat sahi hai k mai ghar walo sy ye baat chupaun aur unhy naa bataun jb k mjy ye baat qabool hai.

2. Kya kisi larki sy rishta is wja sy khatm kr daina k wo maa nhi ban sakti, drust hai. Kya kahi is wja sy mai gunahgar to nhi ho jata. Mera ye masla hall farma dijiya. Allah apko jaza dy.

Marital problems

10 years ago By admin

Q: I have been having great problems with my wife the last few years. She separated herself from me because of her mother telling her and the last few months she came back and we have been trying to reconcile. She's very disobedient and always fights with me but we have a child so I have tried and tried with her. When we were separated, she and her mother disrespected my mother and my father and now my family don't want me to reconcile because of this. Also she kicked me out of my home three times. I made an agreement with my wife that I will go back and live with her but I want her to sort things out with my parents just an apology to break the ice. My wife refused and just left and has completely cut me off. I want to know is this wrong what I asked of her. I do want to reconcile but know she doesn't want to anymore. I don't know what else to do. My wife only let me see my son the last few months after years and now she is doing the same again. I don't know what to do. Can you please help me.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

10 years ago By admin

Q: Mera ek jaga rishta aya hai. Wo meri khala ka baita hai. Mere parents bht zada zor de rahy hain ke karo. Wo kbhi rote hain kbhi hath jorte hain. Jb k mei wahan krna ni chati lekin mujy maa baap pe bht taras araha hai, mujy larka pasand ni (larka wese bht acha hai) Meine istekhaa kiya to khwab aya k mei hamare poranay muhalay ki gali mei khari hun .. Mere hath mei do charts hain ek PINK and dosra LAVENDER color ka.. Mei ek safaid 2D mei ja k beth jati hun.. Mera bhai bhi mere sth gari ki pichli seat pe betha hota hai.. Agay mera driver kharay hain jiho ne kalay rang ka shalwar kameez pehna hai.. Itne mei ek admi(jo kuch dino k liye hamara driver reh chuka tha) ata hai, usne safaid kapray pehne hain.. Wo mere seat ki window kholne lagta hai aur kehta hai hum se bhi batein kro.. Mei bht pareshani mei window uper krti hun, us k hath pe marti bhi hun.. Phir mere driver aa k usko mana krte hain aur wo chala jata hai.. Phir meine dekha k raat ka wakt hai mei gari mei bethi hun.. Mere bhai samne se ek DARK BLUE shirt pe GREY sweater pehnta hua ata hai aur kehta hai ghar k andar jao.. (Ye log kahen ja rahy hoty hain aur mei aur meri behen ghar pe rukne wali hoti hain) to meine apne bhai ko jawab dia k jb behen aey gi tb jati hun ya jb ghar se sb bahar ajaen gay tb andar jati hun..(khwab mei mujy lag raha tha k us time ghar mei mere abu aur ek chota cousin hain)

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