nikaah

Wedding functions

Q:

1. Which invitation is best in Islam for wedding- oral or written?

2. Is there a hadith that nikaah should be done after asr prayer?

3. Is it allowed in Islam to have separate function called Henna (mehndi) on previous day of nikaah for girls?

4. Can a wealthy man spend more on walima which will be done subsequent to the day of nikaah?

5. Is it permissible in Islam for a man and woman to suck or lick private parts of each other after nikaah?

Obeying one's parents in matters of nikaah

Q: I have been engaged for almost 1 year and me and him want to get married so there will be no more haram. His family is okay with it but my parents don't let me marry him just because he is Arab and I am Turkish. They have no Islamic reason and they don't want to pray and know nothing about Islam so it is not normal for them to marry at this age. So I heard if the father doesn't have Islamic reason then it passes to my brother to be my witness and then passes to uncle and if they both don't agree then an imam can be my witness is it true? And I also heard a man's parents don't need to know about the marriage only women's parents. I know no one of my family would agree because they aren't aware with anything about Islam and they don't find it normal so I was wondering can the imam from the mosque be my witness since my family don't have any Islamic reason, and my parents don't know about the marriage?

Larki apna nikaah khud ne parhai

Q: Main ye janna chahta hu ke ek larka ek larki apni marzi se bagair wali ke nikah krsakte hai pr hamare nabi ki hadees hai jisne bagair wali ke nikah kia uska nikah batil hai or agr maulana se pucho toh wo kehte hai ke ye hadees nabaligh ke liye hai main ye janna chahta hu ki ispe kese yaqeen kiya jaye ki ye hadees nabaligh ke liye hai mera matlab koi hadees ho iski ya kuch or jawab zarur dijiyega.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mai ne khwaab dekhi person ke pajama hta hai white colour ka wo mai kharedti hun or meri mama kehti hai ke koi or dekho mai nni manti phr unk kehne pr apna pajama or baki ek 7 match krti hUn tow mre wala pajama zyda white hta hai. Phir kehti hun mai ke dkha mre pasnd ka zyda white hai phr mama maaan jati hai or mai ly lyti hUn Matlb bta dyn. Kya mri psnd ki hogi shadi jo khwb mai aya k mai apni psnd ka lyti hUn pajama?