nikaah

Receiving a good proposal

Q: A girl got a good proposal for her marriage. Everybody is satisfied with all other aspects except the boy's age, he is only one year older than the girl so, as the girls get older soon due to delivery and all, girls parents are in confusion whether to accept the proposal or not. May mufti Saheb please give your precious suggestion in this regard?

Does nikaah break through separation

Q: Is the nikaah over if a husband and a wife are separated for 2 years? One of my Muslim sisters has been married for 3 years. She hated him because when she got pregnant he told her to do abortion just four months after the marriage and he left her until she delivered the baby then he was back to her and after she forgave him they were staying in separate homes while she was taking care of her sick mom. He did zina with another woman and after two months they were back together again. Then he told her about what he did and since then she never consider him as her husband and she asked him for divorce but he never granted her divorce. He said to her since I did this mistake you can do whatever you want and I will be ready to accept you then we will be equal and she hated him even more. After one year she travelled to another country and she liked a guy which she wants to marry but she is confused if her nikaah is over or cancelled since it's been almost two years now that they are not living together and she doesn't want him but he is refusing to give her talaaq.

Marrying a person who is one's match

Q: Kindly assist me if possible. My eldest son is 23 years old and Alhamdulillah he is a hafiz as well. He is ready for marriage and it is his wish to marry in the Sayyid family (lineage of our Prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam). How do I find someone as per his wish. Please make dua that Allah Ta'ala grants him a suitable spouse.

Premarital relationship

Q: I want to ask a question about dating in Islam. I am dating a guy whom I love so dearly,we both want to get married in the future but there is a deep urge within me to be just a pious Muslim and stop all the bad things I am doing. So what I really want to know is if he and I repent to Allah and try to get engaged in the Islamic way, will Allah forgive us and accept our marriage as a lawful one in Islam. We both are pursuing our bachelor's degree and we want to wait until after that. I have been seeking answers for the past few weeks but a friend told me that the likelihood of Allah forgiving you of a sin you know is bad and still do is 0.1. So I am confused, I really need help.

Consulting one's parents with regards to nikaah

Q: I have two options of girls to get married to. I did istkhara. First time I saw a lot of dogs around me and I felt the presence of first girl (first option) and I was fighting with the dogs. In other dream I saw that I was talking to the second girl and on the same night I saw another dream that a big white dog is chasing me! I did istikhara three times. What should I do now?

Rishta khatam hone ke ba'd larke ki taraf se angute

Q: Meri shadi ho gayi hai aur Meri shadi se pehle mera ek rishta aya tha. ladka Dubai me rehta tha.aur kafi rich log the wo mujhe dekhne aur bat pakki karne ke liye ladke ke walid aye the. Aa kar 2-3 din rahe hamare ghar. Is beech hamare abba Ne unhe mujhe dekhne ko kaha aur ye pas and and par anghuti pehnane ki bhi bat ki. Is par wo mehman yani ladke k walid pehle bazar gaye aur sone yani gold ki ek anghuti me aye. Unhone mujhe dekha.mera nam wam pucha.kiya padhti hu wagers pucha. Phir mujhe anghuti pehna Di.aur phir agle din wapas chale gaye.lekin wo jo gaye waha jakar unhone hamse kisi tarha Ka koi rabta nahi kia.aaj do Sal ho gaye hai Meri bhi dusri jagah shadi ho chuki hai. Lekin wo anghuti abhi take mere pas rakhi hai.unhone mango bhi nahi. To kia ye anghuti mujhe apne pas rakhna think hai ya nahi.plz bataiye? Meri Phupi kehti hai ki inke ane par khilane pilane mehmandari mai hamare hazaro rule kharch hue islye tum anghuti wapas mat karna. Aap baraikaram apni rai batai.