Ramadhaan & Fasting

Q: Can we keep nafl roza on the 11,12, and 13 Zil Hijjah?

Q: My question is that can my mother complete the fardh namazes,fasts etc of her mother who had passed away (dead) so that she will be safe on the judgment day? Or there is some other way in Islam by which we can fulfil the remaining fardh ibaadaat of relatives who are no more alive?

Q: I want to know that 5 years ago I was pregnant for my daughter in the month of Ramadaan, so after she was born I wanted to pay in the missed fasts as I have done for my eldest, but a moulana told me it wasn't neccessary I just have to pay fidya. Now people are telling me that I have to pay in the missed fasts. What am I suppose to do now?

Q: Is it permissible to use a suppository whilst fasting?

Q: The clock happened to run slow. Sehri ended at 5.30 AM but we were inadvertently still eating at about 5.50 AM when a neighbour alerted us of the actual time and we stopped immediately. Is our fasts valid or qadha needs to be kept?

Q: My question is during one Ramadhaan while fasting my wife accidentally sucked my private part (wife was not fasting) out of excitement. I immediately withdrew. But after that there was a seminal discharge. I heard in such a case the fast is broken. Please tell me what is the sharia'h ruling in this case? 

Q: Can a woman cook while she is in itikaaf?

Q: Is shab-e-qadr in the last odd days of Ramadhaan (last ashara) or in any night of Ramadhaan?

Q: When one is sitting in itikaaf can one go for ghusal to cool of or the Friday sunnah gusl? If yes for Sunnah gusl than what if the gusl khana is not near the wudu khana; its upstairs. Can one go for ghsal upstairs?

Q: Can we apply cream on face, hands and feet while fasting?