Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Questions related to intimacy

3 years ago By user2

Q: I have a few personal questions regarding a halaal husband and wife that are in Nikaah.

1. When does ghusal actually become fardh, when the male private part touches - like rubs against the female private part between her legs WITHOUT going into the female private part, or when the male private actually enters the female private part?

2. How does one remove semen from a bed sheet or duvet cover?

3. How does one remove madhi (before semen) from a bed sheet or duvet cover?

4. Is kissing one's wife or husband's private parts haraam?

5. What age should a wife and husband stop allowing their child to see them without clothes, example baby is in the bath and one parent is in the shower?

6. Does a woman need a fardh ghusal if she has a wet dream?

7. If the husband puts his finger inside the wife's private part, does the woman need a ghusal if she does not orgasm?

8. If one touches his wifes private part and his hand becomes slightly moist and he touches the blanket, is the blanket napaak?

9. If madhi (before semen) touches a blanket does it become napaak?

10. If one does not realize that semen or madhi touched something like the bedsheet then after a few hours or even a day sees a dried stain what should he do?

Will nikaah takes place if a boy asks a girl “will you marry me”?

3 years ago By user2

Q: What’s the maslah pertaining to the question “will you marry me”?

I learnt a while ago that whether it was done in a school play for example and the boy had to ask the girl or vice versa “will you marry me” and she said yes, they are married? What would be the maslah and how would the marriage be terminated?

What would happen if it happened on WhatsApp or in private? Would they still be married? And how would the marriage be terminated?

What would be the maslah if the people don’t know about the maslah of getting married in this way and they did it? I have a friend who went out with a group of friends and this girl asked him will you marry me and he said ya I will and they were with other friends? Are they married and what would be the next step?

Parents responsibility of taking care of their son's illegitimate child

3 years ago By user2

Q: Should someone accept their son’s illegals child and child’s mother. The son’s point of view that he is responsible of his deeds. Our point of view is that we will never accept the child and his mom as she is not his legal wife so only this behalf that she is child’s mother we can’t accept. We think that if we will accept them then we will part of his haraam action. Are we right or wrong?

Cursing one's child

3 years ago By user2

Q: One of my acquaintance curses his daughter with haraam animal (pig) whenever he is angry or in rage. Kindly explain what are the precautions to be taken and what consequences can be held against that person in the eyes of Allah!

Compatibility when choosing a spouse

3 years ago By user2

Q: I'm a taalibul 'ilm (studying Dars-e-Nizaami). I have no objections with what is said, but I'd merely like a clarification and an explanation if possible.

I came across the following question on Muftionline: https://muftionline.co.za/node/33372

At the bottom, as a note, Hadhrat mentions, "The above ruling applies to the case where the boy and girl are both non-Arabs and both their parents and grandparents are born Muslims (i.e. they are not converts)."

Dua to be recited by the newly wed spouses on the first night

3 years ago By user2

Q: I would like to know about the prayer that the bridegroom and bride pray together after nikah and before consuming their marriage. How is it performed and why? I will be getting married soon and have heard about this from an old person and he has not been able to give me more details. All the others to whom I have asked, no one knows about it.

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