Advice

س: على لسان صديق يقول زوجتي تخونني مع اخي واخاف الفضيحة في نفس الوقت ماذا تفعل في هذه الحالة

Q: Me and my wife have just returned from hajj الحمد لله. We wish to have some guidelines as to how should we lead our lives from now onwards so that we can please Allah Subhan wa Ta'ala.

Q: How can one attain taqwa?

Q: A while before I got married I used to train at a gym. The instructor, a male, had a lot of other males and females in this class. At the time I knew that training in a mixed setting was haraam but I was ignorant and am still trying to repent for this sin. I stopped training after 3 months and then got married 2 years later. Now, after 2 years, the instructor keeps harassing me and making false accusations of me having an affair with him. All this time before I got married I had no contact with the gym or trainer and did not even hear from this trainer. Alhumdulillah, my husband can see that this is nothing but harassment and that I did not commit that sin. I however feel as though I did commit the sin by just being in the presence of men in a mixed gathering and training. He is accusing me of a whole load of false accusations which I did not commit and I have tried to get legal help but the more I fight back the more out of control this situation becomes. I am really afraid that people are going to find out and assume the worst even though I did not have an affair. Please can you advise me accordingly.

Q: One of my cousins is on the wrong path and I'm very concerned about him. He talks to many girls, and plays with their hearts, just like today's modern society's bad guys. I would want to know of any wazifa or surah to recite on him for him to be guided on the right path. I do recite verse 8 from Surah Aal Imran over him often and pray for his guidance regularly. I want to know any other surah or dua too.

Q: Is there any hadith or Quraan verse to console a person whos property was burnt by fire or damaged by water?

Q: How to establish the love of Allah Ta'ala in one's heart?

Q: My wife is demanding to go and stay in her sister's house who is also married for 4 days during my absence due to work. I don't like her sister at all so I refused. What is the Islamic opinion? Furthermore I would personally take her to her sister's house to meet for 1 or 2 hours when I have time.

Q: I am a 22 year old female. I have lost the desire to live. I don't like doing anything. I blame my fate for the circumstances I am in. I wanna die. I have got so many problems in my life that I hate it. My prayers are not being answered. I am losing my faith because I believe that Allah has written my fate this way. He wansts me to suffer. I am helpless. Kindly tell me what to do in these circumstances.

Q: My sister in law has converted to the Hindu religion by marrying a Hindu boy. She is living in a Hindu family and following Hindu rituals. I know it is a great sin to leave Islam, but my mother in law and brother in laws are not breaking their relationship with her. Due to this she usually comes home to meet them. In this case what should I do? Is it permissible to keep relations with this type of a person?