nikaah

Secret nikaah

Q: I am Muslim and Sunni woman. Divorced for last 7 years. I have done my Nikkah last year in the presence of two male Muslims witnesses, with a man who supports me in every manner. My family was not involved as being a divorced people don't like remarrying of a woman. We kept on meeting but for last some time I am not getting any job and it seems my Rizq is banned on me, I am afraid that am I in a Haram relation. I have stopped seeing my husband but he's angry with me now. Please let me know what to do. Witnesses were there and man is mature and supportive but I am really scared. I perform all my prayers n tilawat tahajud and other ibadat but no rizq from anywhere. Please pray and advice.

Allah Ta'ala owr Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ke baare me gustaakhi karna

س: میری فیملی میں کزن ہے اس نے اللہ اور نبی ﷺ کہ بارے گستاخی کی تھی۔ پھر وہ نکاح سے پہلے تائب ہو گئی۔ یعنی جس دن اس کا نکاح تھا اس نے اسی دن توبہ کرنے کہ بعد نکاح کیا۔ لیکن کلمہ شہادت اس نے زبان سے مکمل ادا نہیں کیا ۔۔ کیونکہ کچھ لفظ ایسے تھے جس پر اسے وسوسے آتے ہیں ۔ یعنی لفظ کچھ اور ہے اور اس کا مطلب اسکے ذہن میں کچھ اور آتا ہے . اس لئے اس ڈر کہ باعث کہ کہیں گستاخی نہ ہو جائے اس نے آدھا کلمہ زبان سے ادا کیا اور کلمے کا دوسرا آدھا حصہ ( یعنی جس پر وسوسے آتے ہیں ) دل ہی دل میں پڑھا۔ اور نکاح کر لیا ۔ اس طرح اسکا نکاح صحیح ہے ؟؟؟ جزاک اللہ

Getting married to have children

Q: Our Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) married many women time to time. Now my question is: Did he ever marry any woman with intention of having children (as his sons passed away young). Similarly, is there any other Prophet ever that married particularly to have children when one's wife couldn't have children?

Getting married in a dream

Q: My question is about dream. Two times I have seen that my husband is marrying someone. But this time I saw a dream that my husband is married with some women. She looks so innocent and has tears in her eyes. All my family know about his marriage and they are talking against my husband but I explained to them that my husband is not like that. After that I cried in front of Allah and I was depressed about his marriage. But my husband was nice to me. I am very tensed about this dream.

Enquiring about the Deen of the girl

Q: My parents are searching for girls for my marriage and when I go to see any girl along with parents I keep on asking them about Deen, Islam, namaaz, Quran recitation and how important is deen to them, all these sort of questions. They give proper reply as well but they are rejecting the match saying that I am very strict or how can I ask such questions as they too are born Muslims. I ask these questions not to check how pious they are or I am not saying that I am perfect, just I am looking for some one who knows Islam well and who can correct me as I am not perfect. So my question is is it wrong to enquire a Muslim girl how much she follows or knows deen?

Girl leaving home to get married

Q: A girl liked a guy. The guy's parents contacted girl's parents several times for marriage but girl's parents always refused thinking it as an inappropriate match due to lack of guy's religious commitment and financial stability .The girl left home and did nikah in absence of any of her wali. Now the guy's parents are inviting girl's parents on Walima ceremony. What should girl's parents do? Their daughter disobeyed them and embarrassed them in front of the society. What are the 'sila rehmi' requirements here for parents?