Proposing for marriage
Q: What is the best way to propose marriage? I am afraid I might get rejected, so I want to approach with confidence and calmness.
nikaah
Showhar ki maa showhar ku biwi ke saat taalluq rakhne se mana' karti he
Q: Mera sawaal ye hai ke mera nikaah hoa hai rukhsati nahi. Ab baat ye hai k islam main mujhe apni biwi se milne or bahar jane ki bhi ijazat hai or hum agar pyar karna chahe to wo bhi kar sakte hai. Ab meri maa mujhe mana karti hai milne se jab k larki k parents mana nahi karte or agar kbhi mera dil chahta hai to main chup k mil leta ho lakin apni maa ko nahi batata q k us ka bhi dil krta hai mujhse mile ab jub hame islam or qanoon ne ijazat di hai to hame q mana kia ja raha hai or han meri maa ne hame ekele dekh lia tha lakin hum kuch nahi kar rahe they ab wo khandan ki waja bana rahi hai ya kuch or baat hai ab main kia karo biwi k haqooq bhi hai or parents k bhi main bht parishan ho mujhe reference k saath jawab de de.
Nikaah of the girl without her permission
Q: I have a question about the validity of Nikah. I loved a guy and my sister and dad found out about it, without allowing me to tell them anything and express my feelings they got me engaged to my cousin without my permission but I don't really understand what sort of nikah it was because they never asked me but I still love the person I am involved with and I want to get married to him because I know he is the right guy for me. If I get married without the consent of my parents, will my nikah with that person be valid? Please I need the answer as soon as possible, and also if I want to run away from the house and come back afterwards when everything gets back to normal, just need to know if my nikaah will be valid and accepted in Islam?
How can one avoid committing zina?
Q: How to avoid doing zina?
Shaadi shuda larki kisi owr se shaadi karna chahti
Q: Mera sawaal ye ha ke ayk larki kisi dusray larkay se peyar krti ha or usi se shadi krna chahti ha lakin us larki ka abu zabardasti us ka nikah us ke cousin ke saath kar deta or abi us ki ruksati nahi hoi. Ab wo larki bager talaak ke jis larkay se peyar krti thi us se nikaah/shadi kar sakti ha?
Daughter seeing her father having relations
Q: If a daughter looks at her parents having sex through a small hole. She was young and saw her dad's penis erected and looked for a little while and then felt discharge within her while looking. She can't remember exactly if there was lust with in her but she just looked at her mum and dad having relations and saw her dad's penis erected. But can't remember exactly if she had lust or she looked just so. But she said she don't think she would have lust for her dad. Is her parents nikaah valid?
Nikaah beghair gawaaho
Q: Ayk mard owr ayk aurat ne mobile mein mojood Quran-e-majeed par hath rakh kar aor khuda ko wah bana kr ek dosre ko mian bivi ke tor par qabool kia, na koi mard gwah aor na kisi aurat gwah ke samne. Kia aisi surat mein wo sharee mian biwi ho gai he ya proper treeqe se nikah ka hona zuroori he?
Mutual agreement of both parties in regard to issues of nikaah
Q: When making nikaah, is it the girls choice to choose the Musjid?
Distributing dates after nikaah
Q:
1. Is it Sunnah to distribute dates after a nikaah?
2. Is it Sunnah to throw theses dates at the people after a nikaah?
Girl getting married without consulting her father
Q: I would like to know, I am separated from my elder daughter's mother, and my daughter lives with the mother. My daughter made nikaah a few days ago, and she used consent from her mother's current husband, although I maintained her all through the years, but when she graduated from university, and started working, she distanced herself from me. There was a proposal for her, which I was informed about, but as time passed, approvals, wedding dates were set by her mother, without consulting me. Subsequently the nikaah happened last Saturday. I was not informed by either her or her mother about the date. I would like to know is it permissible for her to use her mother's current husband as a person to give consent for the nikaah?