Taking oaths that one cannot fulfill

Q: I made oaths like reciting a certain prayer every night or performing missed (qaza) prayers after each obligatory prayer. If these oaths are broken every time I fail to fulfill them, it seems impossible for me to pay all their expiations. No matter how careful I try to be, there will always be oaths that end up being broken. I feel so helpless. I ask Allah for forgiveness, but there’s nothing more I can do. I try to pay expiations, but it feels like an ant carrying water to extinguish a fire. In this situation, is there no way for me to attain Allah's forgiveness? Please, give me some guidance.

Performing wudhu using a spray bottle

Q: 

1. If wuḍuʾ is performed using a spray bottle, is the wuḍuʾ valid? 

2. With regard to the obligatory (farḍ) parts of the body that must be washed in wuḍuʾ, is it necessary for two drops of water to fall from each hair and part of the skin, or is it sufficient for two drops to fall from the entire organ (e.g., the face), even if only two drops fall in total after spraying water? 

Purdah between non-mahram males and females

Q: My friend [24f] makes parda from her brother in law [17m]. However her father's first cousins is her husbands maternal uncles and she doesn't make parda from them. Upon telling her she brought the hadith of brother in law being death and said there is no specific ahadith relating to her having to making parda from her husbands mothers brothers therefore she doesn't have to. Is it true?