Interpretation of some dreams

Q: I committed zina with someone behind my husbands back for 7 months. I told him and he ended up forgiving me. He wanted to do istikhara to ask ''Is she good for my future'' me and him both did it. 

His dream(s):

First dream was me and him making love and people are knocking to ask if we are okay or not.

Second dream: He was with another lady with scarf and couldn't see her face. Coming towards me to give me divorce and then another man was the the side, someone came and stabbed him and my husband ran after him to catch him. 

My dream(s): Me and the other man was in the hotel and my mum came and looked at him and started being nice to him.we left the hotel and he had to go so we were parked at the bus stop (out of nowhere I saw my husbands face saying ''look how happy mum is and you lot are you should be with him'') so my dad threw something behind a old lady (a shot glass but there was no alcohol involved) and that other guy just laughed. My mum put a light green towel on the floor for the other guy so his shoes don't get muddy and that was it.

Dream 2: I am walking with some men (maybe relatives i don't know) and we are walking on a path, people are playing cricket around us and then we reach a very very narrow path and its quite dark, we are struggling to walk through. Very very smelly and rubbish on the sides like bones and black bags someone said '' there is a dead dog here'' they are stepping on top of him and when I get to the black dog I can see his eyes look up at me and hes growling because hes getting hurt and annoyed but he cannot get up .That was all.

Third dream: This one is quite unnecessary. I was at a doctors appointment and I went up but couldn't find the room I asked a white lady and said do you know where the room is and she said '' don't tell her'' I said ''why?''  and she said you don't need to know so I said why are you being horrible and she said because ive turned out this way and I said don't expect anything else back then will you and I tried pushing through the door for the exit and got out but after her. I got out and it was a big shop and a black man is walking holding a girls hand and when he see's me he lets her go and hold my arm/hand and I say get off and push his arm off. Thats the end of the dreams so far.

Can you please tell me, the question I asked was '' is it best for me to be with him or not, should I be with him '' and these are the dreams we got.

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A: In a marital relationship the husband and wife need to be true to each other. If there is infidelity from either side and the barriers of honesty and truth are broken, then of what good is such a nikaah? More than being concerned about the dreams one should look deep down within the heart and see whether the commitment and love is found in the nikaah or not and thereafter take a decision.

And Allah Ta'ala knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada