Premarital relationship
Q: Mujhse zina ka gunah hogaya hai... main 21 saal ki ladki hoon, mere ek cousin ke saath mujhse kai baar zina hua hai... main muhabbat me yeh gunah karti chali gayi, lekin mujhe yeh ehsaas hogaya ki yeh sab ghalat hai... mujhe unse aur unhe mujhse nikah karna hai, unhone mere ghar pe rishta bhi de diya hai... lekin mere gharwale raazi nahi hain... maine bohot koshish ki magar raazi nahi ho rahe... aur main un dono ko sach bhi nahi bata sakti... aur wo log meri kahin aur shadi karna chah rahe hain jisse ki meri zindagi barbaad hojayegi... maine Allah se bohot maafi maangi aur mangti hoon... aur mujhe nikah us cousin se hi karna hai... kya main istekhara karke positive signs aaye to apne maa baap se kehdu ki maine Allah ki marzi jaan li hai... ab aap log bhi maan jayein... yehi ek raasta dikh rha hai ab kyuki Allah ka naam aane se wo log zaroor maanenge... Lekin bas dar is baat ka hai ki kahin negative signs aagae to... Ab to sirf pasand nahi meri majburi bhi hai us aadmi se nikah karna... iska kya hal ho sakta hai? maine Allah se bohot tauba karli hai ab kuch samajh me nahi aa raha kaise apne ma baap ko raazi karun... un dono yeh rishta bilkul bhi nahi pasand magar ab yeh meri majburi hai...
A: Apne khaandaan waalo ke baro se baat kare.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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