Not delaying in making nikaah

Q: My mother liked a girl for me for marriage and did istikhara but it was negative. But before doing istikhara they exchanged pictures. So now I like the girl and the girl also likes me and wants to marry me. Same are the feelings here. So what should we do? We are in a critical situation. Please help us. It's the matter of our whole life. We want to marry and our heart says we will Insha Allah stay happy forever.

NOTE: My mom already visited 40 to 50 girls for me but in each and every case something wrong happens (girl is not cute or our rental house issue or anything strange) but my mother truly likes that girl and the girl's family also likes me. So now please read everything carefully and help me. I am so tensed.

A: If your elders are pleased then you should not delay in making nikaah. Destroy all the pictures immediately. Don't allow this curse to come into your lives and do not communicate until you have made nikaah.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

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