Tamaam na mahram larko se purda karna

Q: Humne khawab me dekha ki me or meri ammi mere taya ki beti k ghr jaa rhe h or mere ammi ko mene unk ghr chodha or me kuch saman shp pr bhool gyi tu wo lene k lye chli gyi or jb ammi ko lene gyi tu raste me khade kuch ldke mujhe sata rahe the or mujhse badtameezi kr rhe the tu mene unhe gali di tu usme se ek ldk ne mere sar pr danda (stick) mari or me behosh hogyi waha khade kuch logo ne mujhe utha kr hospital le gye or me jisse chahti hu unk call aa rhe the tu unhe mere accident k bare me bataya or wo b hosptl aaye or mujhe 2 dn k bd hosh aya tu me jb 10 sal ka pura bhool chuki thi or mere ghr walo ko 10 saal pehle k bare me sb puch rhi thi or me jb relationship me nhi thi tu me unhe bhool gyi or unse ajnabi ki trah behave krti hu or mere ammi mere relationship ko bilkul nhi psnd krte tu wo meri bhoolne ki wajha se mujhse kehte h ki meri 10 bad engagement hogyi thi or usse meri shadi h or me b yaqqen kr leti hu or mere pyaar ko bhool jati hu lkn wo bar bar mere ghr ate h mere bf or mere parents se meri shadi k lye baat krte lkn mere ammi mana kr dete h or me unse abki barbhot khush hokr milti hu or unhe yaad krne ki bhot kosish karti hu tu please mujhe is khawb ki tabeer bataye.

A: Panch waqt ki namaaz ku paabandi se apne saheeh waqt par parhne ka ihtimaam kare. Neak suhbat ikhtiyaar kare owr tamaam mushtabah cheezo se parhez kare (jaise cellphone, internet, TV, waghairah). Aank, zabaan, kaan aur dil ki hifaazat kare tamaam ghunaaho se aur purda ka ihtimaam kya kare tamaam na mahram larko se. Agar aap nek raaste ki oopar chale gi aur har waqt ghunnaho se bachegi, to Allah Ta'ala aap ku hamesha khush rakhenge owr kamiyaab banaenge.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada