Showhar azal karne se mana karna

Q: Mujhy apny husband k bary me sawal karna hai. Mujhy apny husband se had se ziada mohabbat hai jis ki waja se mai bht baar disheart hoti hun,yahan tak k un k bagher dil na lagna apny meky me bhi bus unk sath rehna har waqt pasand hai, mery husband bhi bht achy hain bht caring bhi hain lekin agar mery husband mjhy tawaja na den kbhi to main bht ziada disheart hojati hun, jesy deen ka taqaza hai aj kal karachi ijtima qareeb hai or mery husband raat late night tak gasht karna chahty hain or asar se wese bhi ghar par nhi hoty mery buchay bhi nhi hain main akeli hoti hun is liye raat me mujh se akela nhi raha jata mujhy bht ziada dar lagta hai mera room bhi chat par hai jis ki waja se main bht darti hun lekin mery husband phir bhi chaly jaty hain unka kehna bhi ghalat nhi k deen ki khatir qurbani deni hogi yeh or aisa nhi hai k main deen k liye qurbani nhi dena chahti main qurbani dena chahti hun lekin yahan main bht majbur hun mjh se rat me nhi raha jata or main chahti hun woh raat k waqt me na jaen mery sath rahen mujhy bht ziada dar lagta hai main is mamly me kia karun? or is k ilawa mery andar sexual desire bht ziada hai jo mery husband us tarah puri nhi kar pa rahy aaj kal jesy main chahti hun jiski waja se main bht depressed hun main unhe kisi waqt chuuna chahun or unhe koi or taqaza hota hai kahin jany ka to woh mana kar dety hain or wesy bhi us tarah puri nahi kar pa rahy jesa main chah rahi hun to main tarap jati hun, woh isi saal 3 mah laganay k liye abhi buchy nahi karna chahty woh kehty hain pehly 3 mah lag jaen us baad karengy warna main 2 saal tak nahi ja sakungi jiski waja se woh azal kar rahy hain lekin mujhy us me satisfaction nhi mil rahi mai chahti hun azal na karen is me mujhy bataen mai kia karun? mai chahti hun meri mohabbat me tehrao ajaye or mai bhi aam bewion ki tarah ho jaun , or main itni ziada be taab na rahun mery andar se sexual desires bhi kum hojaye magar main koshish k bawajud bhi nahi ho pati mujhy koi aisi dua bata den k meri mery husband k liye mohabbat me tehrao ajaye main normally aam bewion ki tarah ho jaun.

A: Jab ye aapka haq he to aap usko mana karle ke azal ne kare.

Saat martabah isko parhle aur shohar ke khaane peene ki cheezo me phoonk maare: "Yaa Subboohu Yaa Quddoosu Yaa Ghafooru Yaa Wadoodu"

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)