Nafarmaan biwi

Q: Meri biwi meri nafarmani karti hai, ghair mehram mardon se baat karti hai mujhse se badtamizi karti hai zaban chalati hai yahan tak ke galiyan bhi deti hai main us per gussa karta hun kyun ke wo meri baat nahi maanti bar bar yehi kehti hai k mujhe ye shadi nahi rakhni ye pehle se talaq yafta thin maine inse shadi ki thi inke bare main sab kuch jaan kar uske baad inka sulook mere sath bura hai or inki mother inhe support karti hain kya inke is sulook se inki namazen qubool hongi jesa ke maine suna hai ke jo aurat apne shohar se badsulooki karti hain unki ibadaat qubool nahi hoti. Rehnumai farmayen.

A: Bajaaye huqooq ke mutalabah karne ke aur kisee jhagrah aur nizaa banaane ke aap sochiye ke khawind ki zimme daari ye bhi he ke biwi ki taleem aur tarbiyat mahabbat aur pyaar se kare. Aakhir tumhaare andar kuch kamzoriya hogi. Taleem aur tarbiyat kisee buzurg ki kitaab dekhne se saheeh ho jaati he makaan ke andar barkat aayegi zindagi ka rukh badal jaayegi. Thori see taleem ho, Quraan Shareef ki tilaawat ho zikr ho. Namaazo ke bad duaa karna chaahiye. Allah Ta`ala madad farmaaye.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)