Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:25
Q: Talaq... Been married to my husband for a year and a half was arranged and love marriage. First couple of months were good then started having arguments. I knew before marriage he smoked weed but he said he would give up after marriage and not smoke it anymore, he lied he always did. Last couple of months of months found out he also drinks alcohol been over a year i never knew before marriage. Since last month he has demanded a divorce saying how the marriage life is not for him he wants the single chilling life. He always disrespects me and has hit me once or twice but for sake of Allah i have always forgiven him, given him countless chances but after hearing the word divorce from his mouth that is when I realized he doesn't deserve me at all or another chance. He has even said he will never stop smoking or drinking and i have waited over a year and done my best to help him change but all my efforts have gone to waste! I have come to my parents house and after couple of months of days he texted me saying he wants a divorce about 2 times and then swore at me. It has been 2 weeks now and i have made a decision to divorce him as i feel it is the best decision for me as i really want a husband on the deen. But our parents are making it hard especially his trying to keep us together and blaming me for everything that has happened and saying how people will talk if we divorced. But we are here to please Allah and not people. Nearly everyday I hear my husband telling me how he wants to be single or find another woman and in anger i ask.why did u marry me if u wanted to be single and chill out ?! He flirts with girls on social media and has no respect for me whatsoever. I feel like his love for me has been fake all this time and i feel betrayed and hurt by him. I feel he will never change even ppl who know him say that to as he has been this way for many years but his parents did not tell me the full truth about him before marriage. His mum said he is home 10pm every night when really he goes out at that times and comes home at half 12 or 1am! please help.
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:22
Q: I would like to know if an organization that is responsible for collecting zakaah and also giving zakaah
1. Can give zakaah to a zakaatable person for building a house
2. Does that zakaah that has been given by the organization specifically to that person only for building of his house can be used for other purposes other than building of the house?
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:16
Q: My son name is Muhammad Khizar. Someone said me Muhammad Khizar is not a right Name. Because you cannot keep Khizar name along with Muhammad. Can you tell me please Muhammad Khizar name is good or not.
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:14
Q: How many miles if we are far away from our home to pray qasar namaz?
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:13
Q: I gave divorced to my wife after four months of nikah without consummating the nikaah? How much mahr should be paid to her?
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:10
Q: I used to have a good business that closed down leaving me with R500 000 in debt. I have R200 000 in an investment that gives me R18 000 a year which I use to pay my childrens school fees. I have opened a small business again were I buy everything in cash, this business can only pay for my monthly living expenses. Can I receive zakaat to pay off my debts and what amount?
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:03
Q: One of my friends told me to read sural al maidha for 40 days to get a spouse. I want to know that 40 days continuously at the same time daily, does it really work?
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 15:00
Q: I have listened to most of your lectures but my iman is still on and off. Is there any thing else I can do to help.
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 14:58
Q: I see a woman visiting my father everyday behind everyones back. Im not sure if he married this lady without my mother knowing. And I dont know if she will want to stay with him after this. Do I confront my father or tell my mother? If they dont stay together after I tell them this then is it my fault that they get divorced or must I just overlook all of this.
Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2017-03-08 14:55
Q: I am asking this question as I genuinely don't know the answer.
Is it permissible to take advice from or to give time to a person who you speak to and where they would start reciting something quietly and start telling you things about yourself such as they would ask you if you are often bloated and if you have seen any blue marks on your body and if you are upset with your husband due to a certain reason (and may I just add that they are correct with a lot of the things they mention) and the thing is that no one actually gave them this information about yourself besides your name or sometimes your mother's name. They also would say to someone that they have a jinn in them and the jinn from that person would take possession of another person who is assisting this person who is helping you and you can interact with the jinn in this way.
Is it permissible in Islam to go to such people for help? How do they gather such information about you without even meeting you or merely speaking to you telephonically. I would assume they are getting the information from a jinn?
Please assist as I don't want to commit any bidat and so that if this is not in accordance with Islam, I can advise my loved ones against it.
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