Talaaq

Does saying "we are done" constitute talaaq?

Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2018-09-12 08:31

Q: If one tells his wife we are done 2 times is the nikkah still valid? We were not discussing divorce and it was said because she was ignoring me. I said it more out of anger but i know she has a good heart.

She is a new muslim so she is still learning. However later on i found out it was because someone in her family was forcing her to do that in order to ruin our relationship. I have never said the words "I am divorcing you to her" and my intention has always been to help her understand deen. She motivated me to become a better muslim. When i got a nikkah i didn't have a beard. Now i have one and also am a student. Is our nikkah still valid?

Remarrying after khula

Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2018-09-12 06:44

Q: I have a elder sister, she had taken a khulanama and talaq e bain as per Indian juridical in the year of 2015 and she also taken a custody of her 3 year son at the time of Khula and from now they are living separate.

Now her husband wants to remarry with her and he is saying I didnt say a word of talaq and since you wanted khula so I just signed and my intentions were not to take khula.

After they get khula my sister didnt perform the iddat period and she is just living a life without a husband.

Now they both want to remarry, can they remarry in Islamic laws.

One more thing, on khulama paper it was written that khulanama and talaq e bain irrevocable what does that mean?

Does "We are done" or "It's over" constitute talaaq?

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2018-09-08 08:25

Q: If I say "we are done" or "its over" does that count as talaaq? I got upset and said it.

Also, I stayed away from her and didn't see her unless she started to wear hijab, is that permissible?

Three talaaqs in one sitting

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2018-09-08 07:50

Q: I need the ruling with regards to 3 talaaqs, can it be issued at once or does it get issued over the period of iddah?

Reconciling after two talaaqs

Submitted by user2 on Wed, 2018-09-05 08:18

Q: 3 weeks ago my husband and I had a big fight. He canceled our apartment and he left. I was mad that I told him to divorce me and he refused. I told him that I had met someone and I want divorce. He got really mad and he said you divorce 2 time. I was lying when I said I met someone. Now he regret saying the divorce and he wants to fix our marriage. My question is the 2 talaq record? And how we can fix our marriage. 

Asking for a divorce

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2018-09-04 06:48

Q: My husband is not taking care of me and my child financially. I was a working person before marriage and now I'm still working. He thinks that I am earning enough and don't need his money. Can I ask for a divorce because of this?

Reconciling after iddat

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2018-07-31 08:44

Q: My husband gave me divorce 1 time and my iddat has also got finished. Is there any way I can go back to my husband if he contacts me.

Faskh

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2018-07-31 07:43

Q: My husband (hanafi) was previously married to a shafi girl from a certain town. Things never worked out due to family influence on her side and she went back to her home town. She approached the ulama in her town for help and the ulama sent my husband a letter stating that he has to attend a meeting at a given date and time. My husband never attended the meeting nor answered the calls from her or from the Ulama. Thereafter he received another letter stating that his then wife is requesting for a faskh with a request for another meeting. My husband never attended that meeting as well. He received another letter stating that the faskh went through and that he must go to sign the necessary documents, but never done so.

4 Months after the fasigh went through he proposed to me and we got married 3 months there after, alhamdulillah. Now a few weeks ago, the matter came about, suggesting that he is still married to his first wife.

Regarding the given situation above I need advice on the following:

- Is he still married to her?

- If he is, what steps should he take?

- What are my rights? (At the time of the proposal I never knew he got "divorced" and when he proposed I said that I cannot be a second wife.) 

Husband telling his wife "If you don't fix your attitude then you go"

Submitted by user2 on Mon, 2018-07-30 08:17

Q: If a husband tells his wife that if you dont fix your attitude then you go. Would that be divorce?

Custody of children after divorce

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2018-07-24 07:35

Q: What does Allah say in the case of separation of husband and wife. The father wants to keep two children and gives the other two children to the mother even though the mother is willing to keep all the children but the father is forcefully keeping them..

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