Women's Issues

Maintaining good relations with two mother in laws

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2013-08-27 09:05

Q: I am 32 years old and I am married with 2 kids. My father in law and mother in law are divorced. After the divorce my  father in law remarried. His new wife was always kind and caring towards myself and my kids. Now that my father in laws wife and me get along, my own mother in law has an issue about it and she hates that my father in law's wife is a good person. She doesn't want myself and my kids to be good with her. I want to know if its wrong to be good with her or if its right to listen to my mother in law?

No longer want to be in a haraam relationship

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2013-08-27 08:49

Q: I am single with a 10 month old baby from a Pakistani. We live together but I don't want to get married because he is already married. I assisted him with his permit which allowed him to travel to Pakistan and he has now impregnated his wife. I asked him to leave as I no longer wish to be in a relationship and want to live my life as a pure Muslim woman. Is this wrong?

Questions on intimate relations between husband and wife

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2013-08-25 08:17

Q:

  1. If a women gets aroused while sitting with her husband and the vaginal area gets wet,but no intercourse takes place; does ghusl become fardh on the lady?
  2. If the husband fondles his wife's clitoris and she does not orgasm but the area does become wet, is ghusl fardh?
  3. Can the husband and wife masturbate each other?
  4. Is oral sex allowed in Islam, if none of the najaasat is swallowed?
  5. Is it permissable for a couple to use vibrators and other sex toys?

Shohar Talaaq nahi dena hai

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2013-08-24 09:59

Q: Ek ladki shadi shuda hai jiska husband usse sahi se nahi rakhta hai wa ladki uske saath nahi rahna chati hai wo usse talaaq chati hai per uska husband usse talaaq nahi de raha hai aur ladki dusra nikha karna chati hai aur ladki pechle ek saal se apne maa ghar me rahti hai, koi raasta hai kya jisse ladki dusra nikaah kar sake?

Husband not interested in wife

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2013-08-24 09:14

Q: I am married for the last 10 years. I have no children because my husband is infertile. The sperm count for my husband is nill and we have tried different methods for a baby but have not succeeded. I am in great trouble right now, not because of the baby, but because of the attitude of my husband towards me. He does not like me from the very begining of my marriage and I always demand love and attention from his side. We are currently living like two unfamiliar people in the same home. He does not want to sit with me, sleep with me and always taunts me. Also, he does not have any romantic feelings with me for which I always fight. He spends his all his time watching tv. I spent these 10 years with great patience and I always took care of him and his relatives. But now I cannot bear any more. How can I spend my remaining life because I have no children and my husband does not even love me. Although he fulfils my basic needs but not by heart.

Shaadi shuda aurat facebook per baat karte

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2013-08-24 08:35

Q: Main ek ladke se facebook per chat karti thi. Sudenly we both fell in love with eachother. Hum phir mobile pe baat karna start kiya. Woh ladke ne mujhe aaj tak nahi dekha sirf hum baat karte. Then around 1 year tak main bohot sharminda hun us cheez k liye. Mera irada time pass karna nahi tha nikah ka hi tha wallah. Kuch haalaat ki wajeh mujhe wo sab chorna para.Main kabi nahi karogi aisi harkat meri lyf main. Kya us harkat k liye mera Rab aur mera husband mujhe maaf karenge. Main bohot sharminda hun. Main kabi mili bi nahi na hi kabi main apni photo dikhayi sirf baat ki.

Is ligation permissible?

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2013-08-24 07:53

Q: I am 36 weeks pregnant with my 5th child. This baby and 4th baby were unplanned. I delivered a child one and half years ago with a c section and now again it will be a c section. It will be my third c section and its getting tough for me. I have searched online a lot and found out that tubal ligation is haraam. Unless the mothers health and life is at risk. Of course if I get pregnant again very soon, my health is going to suffer and I don't want to bear the pain of another c section again. So I just want your opinion if I can go for ligation?  I don't want to commit a sin in my ignorance.

Khala zaad bhai se chat karna

Submitted by user2 on Thu, 2013-08-22 09:40

Q: Mere khale k bete hai. Ek 14 years ka aur ek 16 years ka aur ek 17 years ka. Kya me unlog se chat karsakti hun ya baat karsakti hun. Me 21 years ki hun.

Keeping contact with a married woman

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2013-08-20 09:59

Q: I am in love with one girl for the past 10 years. 5 years ago she got married to another person and she is not happy with her husband because he beats her daily and he is not keeping her happy. She still loves me and she is in contact with me. She says that she can't live without me. She wants to marry me but her husband is not giving her a divorce. She said that she will leave her home and she will marry me. Is this nikaah valid in Islam and can we marry and can be happy inshallah. What is the right way and procedure.

Women exposing their arms and legs to non Muslims

Submitted by user2 on Mon, 2013-08-19 08:27

Q:  I read in a book that a woman cannot show her arms and legs to a non Muslim because they may get attracted. What is the fatwa?

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