Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Marrying a woman who was married to a non-Muslim

Q: I know a Muslim female who married a non-Muslim and now she has a 15 years old son. Now she wants to marry a Muslim. What about the son? If she wants him to be a Muslim and he does not accept then, what's the ruling in Islam. Also is it permissible to marry a woman who can't give birth to a child? If she did not marry a Muslim, there is a great danger to her Imaan. Can I marry her even if she is 15 years older than me? Please guide me in this regard.

Can a girl marry her foster brother?

Q: My question is my sister who is in love with her khala's son but the problem in their marriage is that once she was crying in childhood so her khala made her drink milk from her own, so we consulted many Maulanas. They rejected their marriage. So we then approached to Jamie (bhatkal) they suggested it is possible in the Shaafi'ee mazhab but not in the Hanafi Mazhab and we belong to the Hanafi Mazhab and the main problem is they are madly in love. Please suggest me solution as early as possible.

Nikaah

Q:

1. How many farz, wajibaat and sunnat are there in nikah?

2. Which month, day is better for marriage according to Islam?

3. Is there any dua to get a pious, kind, helpful, caring, loving and best mannered girl in nikah?

4. Please inform me about some books regarding nikaah in Islam.

Marriage with a person who has no religion

Q: I have a Muslim friend. She living in a non-Muslim country and married to a man who follows no religion. She doesn't know about Islam much. In that country rule they are husband and wife. How she can marry a Muslim now? Even though she is not in relationship with her husband for a long time. Please guide me in this regard. Is she in need of a divorce from that man or not?

Oral sex

Q: My husband is diabatic and is on strong medicians which has side effects. One of the side effects is he can't always have sex, so to fulfill my needs he uses his mouth to satisfy me. He dosen't place his mouth inside me but at the outkirts of my vagina. My problem is I feel very guilty because its against the sunnah, although my husband tells me it is not haraam and he can not perform sex like a healthy person. Sometime he uses his fingers but that can be painful.

Male giving a ring to his married cousin

Q: If a girl is married and in a joking form if a cousin brother gives her a ring and told her that this is an engagement ring, then that girl denies is and then he said he is just kidding and the girl is sure that she is married and she doesn't take her cusion brother more than a brother, so she took this as a gift and wore it on the right hand and when he left, she removed it. Is her nikaah with her husband effected?

Oral sex

Q: I wanted to know if two partners play and had oral sex and semen was swallowed, would that render a person's 40 days prayer not accepted? I know oral sex is abhorred upon in Islam but what if it happened?