Miscellaneous

Not attending a mixed gathering wedding

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2019-03-24 07:31

Q: Is my view point good or extremists? I never ask about what the bride to be will wear on her wedding day as here she wears fancy clothes infront of na mharam people, which I totally disagree with. I haven't asked my own sister due to same reasons and she says that I am an extremists. I am also not attending her wedding as there will be mix gathering and music, am I right on my stance?

Removing pubic hairs in the state of hadath

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2019-03-24 07:18

Q: After hadath, shoud we remove hairs from private parts after ghusal or before ghusal?

Women tying the hair at the back

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2019-03-24 07:16

Q: I heard that it is not permissible for a girl to tie her hair like a camel hump. I tie my hair by rounding it with a clip but I don't tie it too up. If I I tie my hair at the bottom of the head, is it permissible?

Repenting from stealing and making up for one's qadha salaah

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2019-03-24 07:09

Q: A person used to be a thief and had stolen over $100 000. He does not have any of the wealth left and has about 7 years of qadha salaah. He has reformed his ways and wants to gain nearness to Allah Ta'ala. How does he compensate for the $100 000 he stole? How does he perform the 7 years qadha salaah in a timely manner?

Hitting someone for stealing

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2019-03-24 07:02

Q: I'm trying to find clarity on a situation where a brother got caught with something that was not his and in the end admitted to stealing it. The stolen item was returned and the brother refused to accept the punishment. So after he refused to accept the punishment, some brothers lured him into a room, beat him and robbed him of all his property, saying that it was sunah.

Insha Allah you can assist to either support their actions or to show them where they went wrong. 

Women trimming the hair below the buttocks

Submitted by user2 on Sun, 2019-03-24 06:47

Q: Can a woman trim her hair that has reached her buttocks so that the hair length stays at the buttocks and doesn't go further down?

Celebrating birthdays

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2019-03-23 08:06

Q: I want to ask regarding celebrating family kids birthday parties. My in laws are not very religious so if someone's kid in their family celebrates a birthday party or celebrates a birthday party at home, what should I do?

I tell them that birthdays are not allowed in Islam and they even say "yes we know, we just doing it to keep the kids happy they can get toys or clothes on this occasion". If I don't go then my husband and in laws get upset and they tell me that I am not part of the family.

Is having wet dreams a sin?

Submitted by user2 on Thu, 2019-03-21 08:14

Q: I am a 30 year old male. Sometime I have wet dreams during night. Is having wet dreams a sin since I have no control over it?

Not exposing one's sins

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2019-03-19 07:52

Q: I wanted to ask which sin is lesser of the two evils, exposing one's sin or lying? I am asking because if someone asks if you have comitted a sin, is it permissible to lie and say you haven't? Would that be better than exposing your sin? In a situation where you cannot avoid the question?

Repenting from stealing

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2019-03-19 07:22

Q: My friends and I stole some stuff because we could get away with it but personally, speaking for myself, I did not have any money and needed the stuff for my house. We feel a lot of regret and have been asking Allah for forgiveness. I stole a lot because I have been without money even after I pay all my bills and expenses. I don’t want to do it again and really need and want to be forgiven.

1. What do I need to do?

2. Do I keep the stuff (lights, cardboard, plate sets, bedding, cabinets, clothes, make up, food, toiletries and perfumes)?

3. If I need to give it back, who do I give it to?

I’ve stolen money from friends and can’t really remember how much exactly. I'm scared that if I tell them they won’t talk to me but I’m more scared of what Allah will do to me. 

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