Talaaq

Suspending the talaaq upon using facebook

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2014-02-01 09:17

Q: I have a problem. My husband allowed me 2 use facebook by himself once and then one day he was in anger so he told me these words. If you use facebook again i'll consider leaving you. I wanted to ask that is it anything to worry? If I use facebook again would divorce happen between us?

Husband telling the wife "Tumhe azadi ho jo chaho dekho"

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2014-02-01 09:13

Q: One day in a fight my wife on her freedom to watch any program on Television, she said she will watch anything on Television irrespective of my stoppage. I said that "Meri taraf se tumhe azadi ho jo chaho dekho lekin suba gane mat suna karo". Please advise in the light of above circumstances if my above sentence constitute Talaq e Bain as I heard azad word constitutes Talaq without any intention?

Sending a letter of divorce via post

Submitted by admin on Tue, 2014-01-21 15:24

Q: I am an Indian and my wife had filed a dowry case against me without any reason and based on that I had to give her talaq in writing back dated [13.11.2013] that is one month before from the day the they have called me in the police station [16.12.2013]. Otherwise they would have put me in some other cases. Since I am staying in gulf I have send a written letter to her on talaaq and sent the same by post. However I have pronounced talaq in front of her father and and other witnesses after a month [28.12.2013] in the police station over the phone. Now my question is which talaaq is valid the one which I pronounced in front of everyone over telephone or the one which I sent a letter to her house with witness signature but at that time during sending the letter I verbally did not pronounce talaq. Please advice which talaq is valid and how to count 3 months iddah period?

Separated from one's husband for 12 years

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2014-01-18 09:06

Q: I have been separated from my husband to 12 and a half years no contact no financial support from him.  I have been told that after three months of separation a talaaq is automatically done is this correct?

Telling one's wife "go" in an argument

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2014-01-18 08:58

Q: I suffer from wasaawis, but not on a major level, just mildly. I was arguing with my wife and she kicked me. After this I said go. My intent
was if that is how you are going to treat me then just go. At the same time the thought of divorce kept going through my head. Then I thought to myself this could mean divorce and immediately thought to myself I am not intending divorce. Did divorce occur in this situation?

Telling people that one divorced one's wife without mentioning talaaq to her

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2014-01-18 07:08

Q: Is it counted as talaaq if a man tells everyone that he divorced his wife even though he never mentioned the words talaaq to her. Is she divorced from him by him telling people that he divorced her.

Husband not supporting the wife and ill treating her

Submitted by admin on Thu, 2014-01-16 07:45

Q: I have been married for three years. I am a doctor and doing a job since the last 9 years. My in laws are very well off but after marriage my
husband simply said that he cannot bear my expenses and even asked me to give my salary to his mother. I started giving a handsome amount to his mother every month but I had to bear all my expenses myself. My husband also wanted sexual relations as many times a day as he desired and when I refused he beat me when I was four moths pregnant with my first son. At the time of birth of our first son I bore all the expenses myself and I told my husband that I will not give my salary to his mother since I have to look after myself and my son. My husband and his mother started pressurising me to quit my job and when I refused my husband beat me very severely. At that time I was pregnant. Then my mother in law asked me repeatedly to get the pregnancy aborted which I did not and I came to my mother's house in march 2012 and since then I am bearing all the expenses of my kids and me all by myself. My husband does not pay a single penny and hardly ever calls to ask about the kids. In the light of these what does the Shairi'ah say about my not wanting to have any sexual relations with my husband? If I take khulaa what would be the status of my kids knowing that their father does not care about them at all?

Signing a document issuing three talaaqs

Submitted by admin on Wed, 2014-01-15 17:16

Q: I am a 26 years old female, doctor, a Hanafi sunni. I made nikaah with my cousin in court 3 months ago in the presence of 2 witnesses and a Moulana saheb. Mehr was given and we consumated the marriage. We love each other with our souls. I was sure that I would make my parents agree about this marriage later but when they came to know about it they threatened me and pressurised me to demand khula or else they are going to shoot and kill my husband. I know they are powerful and would easily shoot him. I being so much threatened demanded khula just for the sake of my husbands life and he unwillingly signed and sent me divorce papers. Now my question is:

1. Is this khula valid? (as we are forced to take khula, we both are not willing for separation we love each other so much and also I was
having my menses when I received my divorce papers).

2. Is khula a revocable divorce or irrevocable divorce (as the word talaaq was written 3 times on divorce paper)

3. What is the iddat of khula?

4. What is the process and time limit for ruju? Can we do ruju even after the completion of iddat?

Please reply me soon I am passing through a miserable time.

Messaging three talaaqs

Submitted by admin on Mon, 2014-01-06 22:39

Q: I want to know if a person says this over a message, is it counted as a talaaq. "Hello I XXX with a clear mind and a clear heart is
giving you YYY all 3 talaaq in the court of Allah. Please advice if this is valid. And also, if it was given wile the woman had her monthly.

Husband messaging the wife that it is over between me and you

Submitted by admin on Sat, 2014-01-04 15:33

Q: I need advice and guidance please. If my husband told me its over between me and him over a message, is it counted as a talaaq?

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