Talaaq

Q: If a woman is divorced three times, I heard she can do halala with a third person and then return to her first husband (after completing the iddah). I know that it is not permissible to make halala a condition in the wedding contract, but it is permissible for her to informally agree with the man (the mohallil) to make halala (by speaking to him), without formally specifying it as a condition in the contract and without announcing it publically? The intention of both parties would be to make halalah so that the lady is able to resume her life with her former husband and reunite her with her family.

Q: Can you explain the steps and rulings regarding divorce?

Q: Can I be forced to give a talaaq or can a fasakh be given if my wife has decided she wants out of the marriage?

Q: Can a wife just say she wants to end a marriage as she does not want her husband any longer? Is that a grounds for talaaq?

Q: I got into a fight with my wife for listening to zikr of Allah Ta'ala and it got to this that I told her that if she will listen to it again then I will give her talaaq. Then I left for mosque but when I came back from mosque I appolgize for using these words. I have used this word once before also but I had no intention of saying it, it just came out in anger. Can you please let us know where we stand and can I give some kuffara for using this?

Q: My husband is a revert and is still learning. My brothers are mischievous and always get in trouble. They played a prank on him and told him that I love you like crazy in Arabic is talaktuki and he said it to me. I said what and he said it again. I want to kill my brothers they are kids and thought it's funny. What must I do?

Q: Due to some petty things I became angry with my wife and said to her if next time I order you for this thing then our nikah will be broken. At that time I was very angry with her. Now I am in very big tension to get out from this saying.

Q: My sister has not lived with her husband for almost 10 years now. She has nothing to do with him as husband and wife, she feels nothing for him as her husband. She got married  in Pakistan, but she lives in Denmark. She has been divorced in the Danish paper, but he has not signed, and according to Danish law they are not husband and wife any more , but her ex-husband denies , and admits that she is still his wife. How are the rules for a woman if she wants to be divorced?

Q: My husband has filed for a divorce according to usa state law which requires us to be separated for 6 months and in between we can reconcile. I want to know the value of this notice Islamically? Also he says he has done istikhara in which the signs say that he should not divorce still he says he will because his parents want. What does Islam say about it?

Q: I have signed on a piece of blank paper and gave this paper to my legal advocate as he required this paper for some legal actions against my wife as she was filling some false cases in the court. When I was out of town my advocate prepared a divorce deed on the blank paper signed by me to counter the false cases initiated by my wife against me. This divorce letter was sent to my wife a month ago and now my wife wants to settle the issues between us and wants to return to me as my wife. Please advice if this divorce can be revocable or not? Pleaase note that I never had any intention of divorcing her. Also I never said verbal talaaq word in front of her. Please I need your advice urgently as already one month and 15 days have passed from the date that letter was sent to my wife who is residing with her parents in a different city.