Q: Before my marriage I used to masturbate and I used to think about my mother in law having sex with me while masturbating. I used to think about taking out her bra and nikars. Is my nikaah valid or broken by just thinking about her. I didn't touch her with lust.
Q: I am married to my cousin (mother's side) 6 years ago.This was a pure arranged marriage and neither of us had any likeness apart from the fact that we were cousins before marriage. We both try to make salaah on time and we take care of each other as well.
My question is that what does Islam say if a husband has no physical attraction towards his wife despite so much efforts to feel attracted to her but still no feelings. During intercourse he only gets aroused sexually by imaging other women. Otherwise its not possible for him to get arouse sexually.
Kindly guide me what to do as this is killing me from inside. I don't know how long I can live like this. Besides this we have no arguments and no fights. She takes good care of me and I do the same, but it's only this one thing and it's happening for more than 5 years. What should I do?
Q: Ayk larki hai jo mujhse muhabbat krati hai. Main bhi use pasand krta hu or qadar karta hn uske pyar ki. Hamari zyada bat nhi hoti. wo isliye bat nhi krti q k hum na mehram hain. 1 week pehle usne mjhse bat ki takreeban 8 months bad. or phr achanak mjhe block kr diya. maine rat ko khwab main dekha "k wo bethi hai maybe black suite or red dupata liya hota hai uthti hai or meri traf nhi dekhti gusse main hoti hai us k honton k pas blood nikal rha hota hai or wo chali jati hai aisa lagta hai k use kisi ne mara hai or wo kisi or se shadi krne pe agree ho gai hai. Meri ankh khul gai 3 baje ka bad ka time tha. phr ankh lag gai or phr se wo khuab main i bethi hui thi or study kr rhi thi. usne mjhe bola tmhen pta haina k main study main busy hn apni bht tough hai. Please mjhe tabeer bta den is khwab ki.
Q: I am 36 yrs old married with 2 kids and suddenly started thinking about other man who is also married. I am praying to Allah day and night that I don't want to think about him. Please pray and tell me some dua I want to forget him.
Q: Before 8 years back I was loving a girl and she also but we never talked just we both know that we are in love and I am getting dreams of her daily and when I wake up I forget the dreams. I think that she is in some problem.
Q: If someone loves a girl then, can he pray to Allah to marry her?