Validity of a secret nikaah
Q: Is a secret nikaah in which there are witnesses and where immediate family have been notified acceptable under Hanafi rulings?
Nikaah & Marriage Issues
Sunnats and Aadaab to be performed after the birth of a child
Q: After the child is born, what are the sunnats and aadaab that should be performed?
Husband financially responsible for wife's stay at her father's house if he gave permission
Q: I wanted to find out if I go to my father's house for holiday, is my husband still financially responsible for me during my stay there or is it my father's duty?
Bride going to the ladies section of the masjid for her nikaah
Q: The bride chose a musjid which has a ladies section and desires to be present for her nikkah. Is this allowed?
Furthermore, does she have to choose the musjid closest to home or can she use a musjid 2.5km away?
Lineage of a child that was born through an invalid nikaah
Q: If a man divorces his wife with three talaqs and remarries her without hullah (intervening marriage), and a child is born from this marriage, will the lineage be established?
Mentioning one's illnesses when seeking a wife
Q:
1. What kind of illnesses would one have to disclose when seeking a wife?
2. If the illness is not current, does it have to be disclosed i.e. if one used to have ocd/waswasa issues in the past and one has healed a great amount, would one have to inform a potential spouse of it in case it could creep up again?
Father of the boy seeing the girl before his son marries her
Q: Is this genuine that for nikaah, first the father and mother of the boy should go and see the bride followed by the sister/sisters and then the boy should go and see the girl for nikaah. This seems as the different rounds of selection.
Masturbation
Q: Scholars who don't allow masturbation as adopting lesser of the two evils like to avoid zina when there is real fear, do these scholars consider masturbation and zina equal in sin, when only done to avoid zina. What's their stance like many Maliki scholars and Shafi?
Feeling pleasure with water pressure when washing one's private area
Q: After urinating, when rinsing the private area with the hand shower, the pressure of water is satisfying sometimes. I get really aroused. Is this counted as masturbation? Do I have to perform a ghusl?
Secret nikaah
Q: I am married and a widow who has children of his own wants to make Nikah with me, but we both want to keep it secret (although in Islam nikah should be notified to family and friends) but in our current circumstances it is very hard. She says that she does not require anything from but to fulfill her sexual desires. We both agree on this that it will remain a secret and will not affect both families at any level.
As her children are elders and she said that her children will not accept my decision and hate will grow if she declares nikah. So as husband I will fulfill her nan-nafqa although she is repeatedly denying as she is earning so she said she won't require anything.
The main purpose for this nikah is to avoid sin. So what should we do as a declaration will lead to unpleasant results from both families.
Please guide in all possible scenerios.