sabr

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Maine aaj subah fazar ki namaz ke bad jab meri aankh lagi to ek khawab dekha jisme bohot bhidh thi shayed shadi wala ghar tha sab ready ho rahe the par main bahar thi wahan ek ladki mere sath me thi wa mujh se puchne lagi ki sab thik hai na mere aur mere shauhar ke beach to maime kahan haan sab thik hai thoda gussa hain par koi baat nahi maan jayenge..actually me mere ayr mere shauhar ke beach problems chal rahin hain..us ladki ne kahan kisine usse kaha hai ki mere shahur ke dil aur dimag me bus tum ho uske bad hum dono us ghar ke andar gaye ek kamre me gaye to wahan mere shauhar ready ho rahe the aur unke dost aur mere chachha baithe the to isliye main wahan se chali gayi par wa ladki kamre me jhakne lagi to mere shauhar se joor se kahan jao to wa chali gayi fir main v ready hone ja rahi thi to ek rum me meri nanad dikhim to maine unko salam kiya to wa jawab de ke rone lagi fir mujhe ek dress diya unhone aur ek aurat boli ye dress tumhare liye mamgwayi hain online to main wa drezs leke chali gayi aur apna saman dhudne lagi ready hone ke liye par mil hi nahi raha tha aur wa kamra v nahi mil raha tha jahan mere shahur ready ho rahe the uske bad ek jagah meri behen aur meri ammi dikhin maine kahan mera saman hi nahi mil raha hai maime baji ne jo dress diya tha wa pehen liya par meri behen ne kahan ye nikalo fir maine kahan thik hai main apna rani color wala frock chuddidar pehen leti hoon par mera saman hi nahi mil raha tha. Sir is khawab ko taberr bata dijie.

Sabar karne ki wajah se ajar milna

Q: Kia khubsoorati ya is se khawalay sey koi chiz ya koi or naimat na milnay pa khas jis ki insaan tamana bhi karta ho ya us ki zaroorat bhi ho ye sab or khubsoorati na milnay pa ajar milay? or us pa sabar karny ka ajar milay ga.mery pas Allah ki jo naimat nahi h or jis ki mja khahish ho chahy wo deeni ho ya dunayavi ma is k liye dua bhi karti hun or is k na milny or is pa sabr karny k ajar milnay k umeed bi rkhati hun kia ye thik esa kar sakti hun Allah is se naraz to nahi ho ga? Allah ne farmaya h k tum jo mangna h mje se mango to ma us se mangti or us se achy ki umeed rakhni chahiye to umeed rakhti hun k wo is ko pura kary ga jo many uper likhi h kia esi kar sakti hun? Allah k khazanay bhary pary us se mangnay ma kajoosi kiun karen yahan nahi to wahan sahi? Agar ajar ki umeed ho to sabar karna asan hojat h kia koi naimat na milnay ya esa milnay jis ma taklif ho us pa ajar ki umeed kar sakty hn?

Making sabr

Q: If a wife is disobedient to her husband in any case of deen/dunia, what should the do? Take action or to be patient (sabar) for Allah Ta'ala?