living together

Living in the same house with one's ex-wife

Q: I divorced my wife 3 times not in 1 go. We are living in the same house as we have an 8 year old son. Me and my ex wife dont see each other in the house. If she is upstairs I am downstairs and vice versa. Its a rented property. She has said after her iddah she wil move out. Is it ok that we are living in the same house? Will we be sinful? Our son is becoming a hafiz so thats why I have not moved out from here as I wake him up in the morning and sit with him whilst he prays. He is used to being with me. He doesnt learn properly with his mum.

Biwi ke zina karne ke ba'd saat rehna?

Q: Mera ek dost he, uska nikah 8 sal pehle hua tha, nikah k 5 sal bad uske badhi mannnato se ladhka peda hua, bchcha 1.5 sal ka ho gaya or uski maa, mere dost ki biwi ko ashiqi ka bhukhar chadha, wah uske walid ke ghar aksar milne jaya karta thi, or kuch din rukti bhi thi., uske walid ke ghar rehkr usne kisi ger mehram se talukat kayam kiye or hamila bhi ho gyi, bad iske jab uska shohar usse lene gya to unke samne us ger mehram ke sath bhag gyi, or 24 gante bad bhagte huye pakdhaye, pakdhane ke baad uske walid us ladhki ko uske gar le gye, mere dost ne talaq ki ichchha jahir ki par rishtedaro ne chalne nhi diya (us bhagne k mamle ko ranjish bata kr niptaya gaya) or use us waqt is haram kari ke bare me nhi bataya gya, mere dost ne uske bachchhe ki khatir us ladhki ko maaf kr diya, jab mere dost ki biwi uske ghar aayi to 15 din achchhe se rehne ke baad usne natak chalu kr diye, or uske shohar ko sari bate quran sharif par hath rakh kr sab bata diya, uske shohar ko sab pata chal gya, or wah us ladhki ke sath nhi rehna chahata, or ladhki bhi nhi rehna chahti, ab masla ye he ki us masoom ka kya hoga, uska baap use rakhna chahta he, or uski maa dena nhi chahti, baap ko pata he agr ladhki bachcha le gyi to us ladhke ki zindgi tabah ho jayegi... ab bataye kya aesi aurat ko nikah me rakhna sahi hoga wo bhi bachchhe ke liye, ya talaq de diya jaye? agr mera dost sabr karta he to use kya azar milega,? aur agr aesi biwi ka katal kar de to gunah hoga???

Shohar ke saat rehna

Q: Mai ik ansari ldki hun.ur ik kunjra ldke k sath me iK computer center PR parate thi .mere ghr walon se bi uske ladke se achche talukat bn gye.fir hm dono ne apne abbu ki razamandi lekr dono ne partnership me center khol liya.ur wahi PR ik sath parate huge hum logon me muhabbat paida ho gyi .WO 5 waqt namazi tha ur bhi achchi khubiyan this .fir hm logon ne nikah kr liya.ldke ki ma ki majudgi me.jbki Maine apne parents ko nhi btaya that.merit umer us wqt 28 sal ki thi.nikah k 9 mahine k bad.Maine apne ghr walon ko bta diya .to mere ghr walon ne talaq ka dabao bnaya .mgr mere shouhr ne court me notice de di .tb mere walid ne 3 sal k bad rukhsati ka time diya.ab WO us bat se mukr rage hai.ur mera shuhr bahut presan hai.kyunki unki walida sirf bachi thi unka bhi intekal ho chuka hai.mera shouhr mujhse chale ane ko kah raha hai .ur meri ma ne dhodh Na maf krne ki dhamki di hai AGR mai apne shuhr k pas gyi to...mai talaq nhi Lena chahti hun.ur ghr wale sirf ur sirf biradri ki wajah se aisa kr rahe hai.mere abbu yahan tk mere shouhr she kah diye hai ki tum dosri shadi kr lo ya talaq de do. ..meri ghr pr koi bat nhi sun raha na hi kahi jane ki ijazat hai......allah ke waste koi mswara den.mai apne shuhr k bagair nhi rah skti hun.

Living together after three talaaqs

Q: One of my neighbours has given divorce to his wife by saying talaaq three times in three different places. The wife is living with him. In any case, she has three kids and her husband has given her property also. Her mother in law n brother in law are on his side. So what was the punishment by Allah for them and what can the husband do?

Marital Problems

Q: I work in qatar and I dont have family status to bring my wife and kids. I just got opportunity to work abroad. My brother works in dubai and stays with his wife and kids. My sisters husband recently got opportunity in saudi without family status. So my sister stays with my parents. Sisters husband also trying for family visa due to situtation, but his company not giving him and he is trying utmost level. Once he gets it he'll take my sister to saudi.

My wife was staying with my family members and after my sister comes home, my wife is upset due to my parents giving more importance to my sisters kids. Because of this my wife fought with me and now she is in her mothers house.

After continuous quarells with me, my brother got to know she had daily quarel with me, so brother called and shout her. So my wife got very angry and she informed to her parents and fight went beyond. Everyone knows in our society, how innocent my parents are, just because of they give importance to daughter kids, my wife got jealous due to this. She feels my parents doesnt care to take care my kids and they take care to my sister kids like that she feels.

We stay in rent house my things and brother things are in same rent house. In my house we have one big room and 1 small. big room my sister and parents sleep and small room me, my wife and kids. I knows its difficult to stay in small room due to small room, my wife fight daily with me to shift the house. During that time my finance was weak. Now al hamdhulilah i am earning good.

Now my wife wants separate rent house with my parents, she put the condition my brother things should not come, because my brother shouted her. My brother sasural family is from hyderabad, so we cannot send back their things, my parents will feel bad and brother sasural also feel bad if we send back their things. If we see two rents house, its difficult to manage to my parents, now they are old. My brother stay in abroad. I told my wife, please dont break brother bond, my parents cant take care two rent house and its difficult to maintain. But my wife is not ready to accept for this and she daily fights with me same. If i say my parents they feel very sad for this. Please advice me what step to be taken.

Teen talaaq ke ba'd saat rehna

Q: Mera swal ha ke agr koi aisa admi jis ko talaq k method ka pta ne ho vo apni bivi ko ik he waqt mein 3 talaq likh kr day or pher ik mujlis ki 3 talaq ko ik talaq shamar kr k dobara apny gr ly ahey or bivi khavand ki hasiat sa rehna start kr day ahea Quran o sunnt ki roshni mein aisa krny sa vo mian bivi bn skty hen ya halaly ki zrort hogi.