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Qasam torna

6 years ago By user2

Q: Mera sawal ye hai k 4 saal pehle mje aik larke ne kaha tha k wo mje pasand karta hai, mere sath class me parta tha, wo mujhse baat karna chahta tha.. Pasand to mje b wo tha par me aese larkon se baat karna us waqt sahi nh samajhti thi mje ye maloom tha k Allah ko naraz kiya to wese hi kuch nh milna..agar uski maan li to uski rehmat se umeed hai k nawaz de ga...mene usey kaha k khuda ki qasam me apse 3 saal baad baat karungi...usne itna kaha tha k me intezar karonga... Me medical k frst year me thi tub mene ye souch k qasam khayi thi k 3 saal baad me apne maa baap se iske barey me baat karungi to achi b lagon gi...lekin usko yehi kaha tha k me 3 saal baad apse baat karungi.. 2 saal guzar gaye uska koi ata pata na tha, achanak mene usko aik jaga dekha usne darhi rakhi hui thi phr pata laga tableegh me lag gya tha...aas paas k logon se uski bari naik naami suni... Phr Allah ne mje hidayat di, haram halaal ka farq samajh aya..3 saal guzar gaye...wada pora karne

Communicating with the boy before nikaah

6 years ago By user2

Q: I am in a very discomforting situation in my life. I don't know who to ask but I think Allah SWT guided me to you. In my family, only my mum does Shariah Pardha. In my Dad's side of the family, it is a norm to get married in the family as well as to talk to your cousins.

A while ago I communicated with my male cousins but I realised it is wrong. Therefore when I went back home I only spoke to them if there was a dire need. I don't do Shariah Pardha at the moment but I hope to do so.

Anyhow, I got engaged to my uncle's son whom attends jamaats etc. He tried to communicate but I ignored the messages. Later he spoke to my female cousins, therefore I responded and explained that I don't find it appropriate talking to you. But he doesn't understand.

My parents think it's okay for me to talk to him if I talk within limits. However, I don't want to talk to him and I have explained a couple of times, however he does not understand. I don't know what I should do.

Talking to inanimate objects

6 years ago By user2

Q: Is asking or saying things to inanimate objects haram (or shirk)? For example, absentmindedly saying 'work faster' to your computer when it is slow or 'please stop hurting' to an injured limb? obviously, the person does not believe that these objects have any power whatsoever and that Allah is really the one in control.

Taking an oath that one will not talk to a certain person

6 years ago By user2

Q: I promised Allah that I won’t talk to my friend first, meaning I won’t start the conversation first. Yesterday he called and I answered then we spoke. So now can I call him and talk to him or do I still have to wait for him to start the conversation. If I start the conversation will it be like breaking that promise. Some time I feel like I promised not to start the conversation ever so what should I do if I am not sure my oath. Can I talk to that friend or will it be considered as breaking the promise?

Baat ne karne ka qasam

6 years ago By user2

Q: Mujhe kisi insan ki qasam di meri choti behen ne aur kaha ke ab mjuh se baat mat kerna per hum ek hi ghar main rehte hain baat kiye bagair rehna mushkil hai mujhe dar hai agar qasam tooti tou us insan ko kuch ho na jaye main pareshan hoon mjhe plz batain main kia karoon

Talking to someone about one's problems

7 years ago By user2

Q: Is it allowed to tell someone your problems? I have been struggling from depression and anxiety kind of stuff. I didn't tell anybody about it so it got worse. I know alhamdullila, that only Allah can cure this and get me out of this but can I tell someone like sharing with someone and is it allowed to tell an Aalim of Deen about your problems as I faced problems and I didn't tell anyone about it so it got worse.

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