nikaah

Marriage and destiny

Q: I have a question that confuses me often. I have read in the Islamic books that women is created from the left rib of the men and therefore matches are made before a person comes to this world. This means that each man and woman on earth has a match. Then what about the man who never gets married or women who never gets married when they have their match in the world. And if a person does not get married, what about his/her destined match? Does his match also does not get married? And those who pass away as a bachelor, does his women never gets married, as a person only gets married to those with whom they are destined to be with.

Shaadi ke mamale me maa baap se mashwarah karna

Q: Mufti saheb mera dusra sawaal ye hai ki jisse mai chahti hu meri shaadi hojai uski kuch months pehle shaadi huvi pr wo us shaadi se kuch khush ni hai naahi biwi k saath hain. Pata nahi kase uski wo shaadi huvi wo bht zyada preshaan hai. Agr wo biwi ko divorce dega wo gunnah mt hai kuch. humko 9 saal ikhatay huve hum ek dusre ko boht zyada chahte hain pr shaadi ni huvi.. hum apas mai shaadi karna chahte hain magr smj ni araha hain kase.. ap mehrbaani kr k help kijiye.. wo agr divorce usko dega tou wou humko badh dua nai deni chahie jis se hum do kbi khush nai rahege.. kuch madad kijiye kya kare hum.. boht preshaan h donu.

Sunnah method of a nikaah

Q: What is the right way and the way of Allah's pleasure to a marriage ceremony? My sister got married in a mosque and we fed the closest family members. Even our closest neighbours weren't invited and they are hurt by it. Is it the saheeh way?

Khwaab par poori i'timaad ne karna

Q: Kya istikhara ka jawab zaroori hai ke khuwaab aye agr khuwaab aa bhi jaye to wo sahi na ho to us khuwaan ko jawab maan lena chaiye? jaise k meri sis ne istikhara kiya shadi k liye uskk khuwaab aya k humara ghar sajja hua hai wo darwazay pe jati hai humarau ghar k samanay ek or sajja hua ghar hota hai ye qareeb jati hai to wo ghar toot jata hai matlb gir jata hai jab k larkay ne bhi istikhara kiya usko koi khuwaab nahi aya albata feelings hui hai sukoon or itminan wali larka bohat acha hy or back ground b acha or larki se shadi krne ki khuwahish bhi zahir ki hai khud us k ghar walay sab raazi hain bus hum is istikharay ko le kr confused hain. Please help and reply.

Taking a second wife

Q: A girl wants to marry me and I want to marry her too. But we had physical relation About 2 years ago. In these two years i got married with other girl and now we also had a kid. But the first girl who had physical relation with me is still want too marry me. And i am thinking(planing) to make her my 2nd wife. She is agree and my wife is also agree with it too. What should i do. Is there any way(kaffara) to get married(2nd).