Q: If my wife was saying her bra size are not good. I said you should get my aunties as I am sure you are the same size. What is the ruling on me saying that? Do I need to keep some fasts before I can have any intercourse with her?
Q: My question is if a brother has asked my father to marry me and my father likes him but wants us to get engaged for a period of time before marriage, what should I do. My father is my only wali and I would prefer to marry this man in order to make things halaal instead of possibly falling into haram. However I feel that my father is acting in a cultural way rather than Islamic. Could you please help me Insha Allah.
Q: All I want to know is Melka Marriage permissible and what is Melka Marriage all about?
Q: Kia aap bta sakte hai biwi ke sath first night kia karna hota hai or biwi ke pure jism par pyar yani kiss kar skate hai or kia piston choos sakte hain or jab inter karte hain tab tezi se ya phir aram se karna hota hai or maine suna hai jab karsakte hai bus sharamgaah par moun nahi laga sakte sirf hath laga sakte hai finger bhi dakil karsakte hai apni ap pura btaiye mufti sahab.
Q: Ayk sawal hai hamare muhalle me ek janab ne jo sunni hain shiya se shadi kar li hai aur unke bachche bhi hain. lekin sunni apne mutabik kam karta hai aur shiya apne tariqe par hai. logo ka unse milna julna kaisa hai. aur masjid ki tameer me achcha khasa raqam bhi de rahe hain. Eslaah kare.
Q: I have done istikhaara for marraige and I proposed to the man I had in mind. He said that he needs time because he is not financially independent yet. I can wait. But I am confused. Is that a positive or a negative response?
Q: When can the husband and wife do sex after periods? When the bleeding stops or after 7 days of completing the time even before the bleeding stops?
Q: I was married before and have three kids from a previous nikaah. I am now married for 7 months and have no kids. I do all the house work, cook, clean, iron and it's taking a lot of strain one me. I don't have a helping hand and requested to my husband that help me get a helper even if it's 3 days in a week. He refused saying he does not dirty the house, my kids do and said he will never get me a helper. I asked him if was his biological kids make the house dirty would he not pay. He said he will pay if his kids dirty the house. His kids live with his ex-wife and Alhumdullillah he does everything for her and kids, which is the right thing to do. I am depressed because all I do is clean and cook and iron. I don't even have time to go to ta'leem. It's just a mess. Please advise if this is the right thing to say. Even if he doesn't get a helper for me, I will carry on this way but does it have or did he have to tell me in this manner?
Q: App na mery swal ka jwab dea mein app ki bohut shuker guzar houn pleeeez nikah ka bary mein bhi mera wehum door ker dain ka in gultioun sa mery nikah per to aser nahi hua mujay tejdeday nikah ki to zarorut nahi kia mera ya nikah valid ha pleeeez mujay es wehum sa nijate dela dain shitan wehum dalta ha shadi sa pehlay jo gulti hui os ki waja sa tumhara nikah hi nahi hua or ager ho ga tha to jo bad mein gultian hui hain in sa nikah fased ho gaya tha pleeez meri ya tention door ker dain sari zindgi dua go rahoun gi Assalam mufti sahab mein wehum owr weswsay ki mareez houn ajj sa 16 sall pehlay mery moun sa allah ka bary mein khud kalami mein naowz billah gli nikul gai asa 2 bar hua 1bar shdi sa pehlay owr1bar shadi ka bad ya gulti hui mera kufer ka koi arda na tha pehlay mery zehun mein tha ka shitan ko gali dany lagi thi gulti sa nawz billa allah ka nam nikul gaya lakin ab 16 sal bad shitan weswasay dalta ha shitan ko kehnay wali bat tum na appny pass sa bani ha bulkay tum na jan bojh ka kaha tha kbhi weswsa ata ha tumhra arda kufer ka tha kbhi weswsa ata ha tnmhra dil kia tha asa kehnay ka khbi weswsa ata ha tumhra arda asa kehnay ka tha kbhi weswda ata ha tumay shitan na kaha tha asa kehnay ko owr tum na keh dea gruz ka her wekut aik nea weswsa ata ha or mujy kuch yad nahi ata asul mein muj sa ya gulti kasay huei mera allah owr rsool per pkhta ykeen ha mein kufer ka shoch bhi nahi sukti lakin ab shitan Weswasa dalta ha tumhra nikha owr eman fsed ho gaya tha tumhri ebadut jo huj umray kiay thay qabool nahi huy olad bhi hram ha mujay asi nufseaty bemari ho gai ha jo weswsa mujy allah owr rasool ka bary mein ata ha mujy lugta ha mein na zaban sa bhi keh dea ha owr yad kerny per kuch yad nahi ata ka mein na asa kaha tha ka nahi easi terha shitan in gutioun ka bary mein her wequt weswsay dalta ha bus mujay etna pata ha k allah or rsool per pukhta eman tha owr ha plèeeeeez mujy eman owr nikah ka bary mein bta dein mein buhut tention mein ho ya wehum mujy pagul ker da ga kas ker nikah ka owr eman ka tefseel sa bta dain allah app ko jazay khair dey ( 2)muj sa ya guti bhi hui mein kehnay lagi thi allah pak owr raheem ha owr shitan ko gali dany lagi thi lakin muj sa oult nikuk gaya yani jo allah ko kehna tha wo shitan ko owr jo shitan ko kehna tha wo nawzbillah allah ko keh dea mujy in teno gultioun ka bary mein bata dain ka in teeno gutioun sa mery eman owr nikha per to asser nahi hua?
Q: Mufti sahab mein wehum owr weswsay ki mareez houn ajj sa 16 sall pehlay mery moun sa allah ka bary mein khud kalami mein naowz billah gli nikul gai asa 2 bar hua 1bar shdi sa pehlay owr1bar shadi ka bad ya gulti hui mera kufer ka koi arda na tha pehlay mery zehun mein tha ka shitan ko gali dany lagi thi gulti sa nawz billa allah ka nam nikul gaya lakin ab 16 sal bad shitan weswasay dalta ha shitan ko kehnay wali bat tum na appny pass sa bani ha bulkay tum na jan bojh ka kaha tha kbhi weswsa ata ha tumhra arda kufer ka tha kbhi weswsa ata ha tnmhra dil kia tha asa kehnay ka khbi weswsa ata ha tumhra arda asa kehnay ka tha kbhi weswda ata ha tumay shitan na kaha tha asa kehnay ko owr tum na keh dea gruz ka her wekut aik nea weswsa ata ha or mujy kuch yad nahi ata asul mein muj sa ya gulti kasay huei mera allah owr rsool per pkhta ykeen ha mein kufer ka shoch bhi nahi sukti lakin ab shitan Weswasa dalta ha tumhra nikha owr eman fsed ho gaya tha tumhri ebadut jo huj umray kiay thay qabool nahi huy olad bhi hram ha mujay asi nufseaty bemari ho gai ha jo weswsa mujy allah owr rasool ka bary mein ata ha mujy lugta ha mein na zaban sa bhi keh dea ha owr yad kerny per kuch yad nahi ata ka mein na asa kaha tha ka nahi easi terha shitan in gutioun ka bary mein her wequt weswsay dalta ha bus mujay etna pata ha k allah or rsool per pukhta eman tha owr ha plèeeeeez mujy eman owr nikah ka bary mein bta dein mein buhut tention mein ho ya wehum mujy pagul ker da ga kas ker nikah ka owr eman ka tefseel sa bta dain allah app ko jazay khair dey. ( 2)muj sa ya guti bhi hui mein kehnay lagi thi allah pak owr raheem ha owr shitan ko gali dany lagi thi lakin muj sa oult nikuk gaya yani jo allah ko kehna tha wo shitan ko owr jo shitan ko kehna tha wo nawzbillah allah ko keh dea mujy in teno gultioun ka bary mein bata dain ka in teeno gutioun sa mery eman owr nikha per to asser nahi hua?