remaining at home

Doing iddat in one's own home

Q: A poor woman who works as a full-time caretaker of another woman had the death of her husband. In this situation, is it permissible to do iddat in the house where she works since she is the only one to support her children and if she goes to her own home for iddat, she will not have any source of income?

Some people are willing to help her financially for the period of iddat to do iddat at her own home. What will be the best in these circumstances? 

Women remaining within the confines of their homes

Q: I was reading an answer you gave to a lady that asked a question about what is the correct way to spend your day. I felt deeply disappointed with your answer.

How could any female stay at home and cook, clean and look after their children all day everyday? Do you not think that would make her feel depressed and her self esteem would suffer because she is worthless now? That is oppression!

Women remaining at home

Q: What is the shariah ruling about women taking kids to public parks? My husband is never willing to take our kids to park all on his own. He gets angry if I present the idea of him going with children only. I have to go with them (in full purdah, keeping my gaze lowered), am I sinning?

Awrato makaan se baahar nikalna

Q: Meine inter ke imtehan diye hain ye meine supply k papers diye hain aur ye mera akhri saal hai. Ager me fail ho gai to 2 saal waste hojaen gy me bht preshan hun kuch dino me mera result hai. Please mujy kch bataen me har haal me ismy pas hona chahti hn. Meine 3 ppr diye hain owr 3no me pas hona bht zruri hai. Lekin kch tnsn ki wja se mry paper achy nh huye thy. Please mri help kren k m pass hojaun. Kisi bhi trhn. Sir apki bht nawazish hoge agr ap mri help kr dain. Apk jawab ka wait krnge.

Maintaining family ties

Q: I want to ask a question about my mother. Recently my father died from heart attack. My mother is in iddat right now and my relatives like my chacha, my dadi, phopo and taya (elder brother of my father) everyone is talking bad about my mother and they don't want to continue the relation with my mother but they want me to be with them. They are continuously becoming involved in our personal matters. Like I want to work job but they are forcing me to stay at home and do what they want me to do. I just want to know that is it important for me and my mother to listen to them after their bad behaviour? Do we have to continue the relation and do whatever they say?