stray thoughts

Q:

1. Hazrat mere dimaag mei hamesha faltu khayalat chalte rahte hai. Mai koshish karta hu kisi ek kaam mei dil lagau per nahi hota. Koi dua bataye.

2. Gaali dene ka azaab kya hai.

Q: Mujko bure khyalat aate hi rahete hai or ye stop hone ka naam hi nahi lete hai or ye mujko kafi samyse aate he or me bahuthi paresha hu or ye khyalat har vakt yani namaz me,ki si majar pe yani ye stop hone ka naam hi nahi lete to please aap muje koi achi takrib batao jis se ye khyalat Allah Ta'ala ke faslo karmse hamesha hi dur ho jaye??

Q: Whatever I do thoughts coming like I am comparing and thinking eqaual one of my friend to Allah. If I don't care will it considered shirk a.. will it be shirk If said I don't care even I am thinking like that .. am sure am not thinking anyone equal to Allah but if I don't care and say this statement will it considered shirk? I didn't do talk like this with this intention but I was ready to talk this statement so is this shirk?

Q: I am suffering from waswas from long time. In islam it's everything about intention . I have read that if a person ready to commit a sin he will be punished even though he didn't do it . So my problem is whatever I do I feel like am commuting shirk am giving more important and am coloring with Allah . I managed to control this problem until few month back but recently I did something very stupid so now am very scared whether I did commit shirk.. whatever I do I feel like am comparing one of my friend to Allah am thinking them as equal to Allah .. I ignore those thought until yesterday and suddenly a thought came am ignoring these thoughts because I don't care whether it's shirk or not. Then suddenly a thought came asking doubt like whether thinking like this shirk or not is shirk .. if I asked question that mean am actually thinking that am thinking that person equal to Allah . Suddenly a thought came asking doubts is shirk .it is like am comparing or thinking that person equal to Allah . But that time I was ready to ask doubt even it is shirk with the thought of asking forgiveness from Allah. Because I had to stop talking to that person if I didn't ask . Then I got to know that not shirk but I was ready to commit shirk in that time for that person . Now am scared that does that mean I commit shirk ?? I stopped talking to that person now . But am scared did I commit shirk ? By being ready to commit shirk ? . Now I stopped talking to that person but in future I hope it won't happen but suppose if there situation comes to talk to that person does that consider shirk . If I talk to that person in any situation does that consider shirk ? Did I commit shirk do I have to say kalima again. What will happen. To my pass deeds plz help me to understand sorry for my bad English .. DID I COMMIT SHIRK ? Is there is any shirk that I have to avoid ?

Q: Ye bta dein en fikro sa mery iman owr nikha per to aser nahi houa. musla ya ha ka mein wehum owr weswsay ki mareez houn muj sa 3 4 gultyan ho gai hein jin ki waja sa buhut tention mein houn ka in sa mery iman owr nikh per to asser nahi ho gaya (1)muj per gusul ferz tha haiz owr jinabut ki halut mein thi to mein na kupra jis per kulma shreef likha hua tha otha ker dosry taruf rukh dea ab mujay nahi malom ka kulmay ko mein na choua ha ka nahi (2)mein apnay batay ka sath bat k.er rahi thi ka tum na doup (sun) mein ja ker apna rung (colour) kitna black ker lia ha pher mein na naraz ho ker keh dea hisai ( christian ) sa kerta kia ha (3) mein apni humsai( neighnour) ko bata rahi thi jub meri ammi fout huni thi to meray walid na a ker kaha beta allah ka hukum sath hi mein na ya keh dea ka mein nahi manti ya bat mein na humsi ko baty huy kehi ka abu na asa kaha or mein na asa kah jis wequt meri walda ka intaqal hua os weqt mein na asi koi bat nahi ki thi bus humsai ko batty huy mery mounh sa asa nikul gaya meray dil mein allah ka hukum ka bary mein kuch gult nahi tha bus mein na juldi sa keh dea agy mein na kia bat ki mujay kuch yad nahi lakin bad mein mujay shitan na weswasa dala kek tum na allah ka hukum ka bary mein jan bouj ker asa kaha ha by chans asa fekra bun gaya mery dil mein asa kuch nahi tha (4)mein na bagair wazu ka sipary (quran) ko chou lia alfaz ko hath nahi lagaya bus opper sa pukra( 4 ) mein nay apnay bucho sa bat kertay huay ya keh dea ager tnm na nahi khaya to kia fereshtay a ker yaa sub kha gay mujay in sub gultyioun ka bary mein bata dein ka in sa mery iman owr nikh per to aser nahi houa shukrya

Q: I was talking with my mother on the phone and I was telling her about my husbands accident that he got 2 times accident yesterday and then I said that (k Allah ny mushkil sa bacha liya) the same time I felt did I say something wrong then again I said to my mother (Allah ny liya) the purpose of asking is, is it first sentence wrong but maybe intention was not wrong after hang up the fone i am upset is it (kufriya sentence) mary mind mein ya waswasa aa raha ha i am worried mara qaim ha please answer me i didnt say intentionally or preplanned but i am worried

Q:

1. I am having lots lots of bad thought So bad i dnt feel like saying it. I get bad thought about Allah The Holy Quraan Islaam sometime Prophet. What to do. Sooo bad thought n i just try to move away the thought but i feel sometimes they r soo near to my mouth then i think have i said anything about Kufr.

2. As far as i think i try not to say it verbally but sometimes my head get fill with sooo much bad thought n it feels like i have said it. I get sooo bad thought about Allah Quraan What to do then i think if my nikaah is valid if am sleeping with my husband if its halaal.

3. I try my best to be a better Muslimah every day. Now i give saadqah like $1 Some times more now sometime say i want to buy something i have$20 n i havr Change n my mind say put saadqah n i dont put would i be sinful. Sometime i take out money to save n something say put it saadqah so if o dnt put im sinful n if i used to money for my stuff is i wrong? I do put money in Saadqah but sometimes when i pick up a bigger note my mind say put that in saadqah if i dnt put am i wrong?

4. I have these problem with getting thought as i say now something in mind say make this oath i dont want to make oath because i u break oath u have to give kaffarah. . Now in my heart n mind comes make this oath n i dnt say it verbally does it count? Sometimes the whole sentence for oath runs in heart n mind but i try not to say it does it count

5. Iif u think of oath does it count

6. If i make intention to give away clothes or items in charity can i changed my mind after n take back the stuff once o haven't given on charity?

7. In my mind comes il put this clothes for saadqah n then i change my mind can i take back.

8. If i want to give a gift to a friend i take out gift to give to her n then change mind for someone else is it permissible

9. If i want to give my friend cousion or family gift say jewellery clothes shoes n they where it would i be sinful if they were it n sometimes if nahmahram c them.

10. If i give perfume to someone n they wear it n men smell it would i be sinful

11. Somethings my mind say give this in saadqa charity n i dnt give n i used myself would i be wrong?

12. If i say this thing is haraam on me would it become haraam on me to used it.

13. I get thought in my mind to say that this is haraam on me. N i dnt say it but sometimes it seems so near in mouth then i think have i said it.

14. The other day something came in mind n tell me say ur husband is haraam for u forever i didn't say it but it came as the sentence in mind if i said it does my husband become haraam for me?

15. My mind tells me so much thing about oaths thoughts bad things sometime things u should not say about someone that it would mean slandering my mind plays alot of things.

16. How can i overcome all of these thought ? I dnt want to make oaths but they come i dnt want to say thing that are permissible haraam but the come what to do?

17. Another question in mind its not permissible to do vidoes n picture that what we know so we try to avoid. Now when we lookon youtube you c moulana Taariq Jameel bayaan on videos hes a very big ulama we respect him and u havr many other religious scholars some who are on vidoes n picture now what is the ruling now i dnt want to say something wrong im scared supposed is kufr?

They r ulamas n they r way higher in knowledge than me i respect them i am happy to hear their bayaans but a thought was bothering me about the video n picture now i tell my self i dnt no what their intention is they r spreading the knowledge of deen.

Now i was reading fatwas below

http://islamqa.org/hanafi/mufti-online/21759

So when i read the hadith about the picture makers does that include videos When i listen to the ulama bayaans i get bad thought bout them which i dnt wany. May Allah grant us all Jannah They r pious respected Ulamas they have more knowledge than me. But when i c their videos i get these ad thought about them what to do.

http://islamqa.org/hanafi/mufti-online/21759 Copy n paste link.

Please help me please my mind have very bad thoughts Abdullah Ibn Masood (Radiyallaahu Anhu) narrates that the Messenger (sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam) said, “The people who will receive the worst punishment in the sight of Allah will be those who make pictures.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

Aisha (Radiyallaahu Anha) narrates that once the Messenger (sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam) entered (her house) while there was a curtain with pictures in the house. (Upon seeing it) his face changed and he removed the curtain. He then said, “The people who will receive the worst punishment on the day of judgement will be those who make these pictures.” (Bukhari)

Ibn Abbas (Radiyallaahu Anhu) narrates that he heard Messenger (sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam) saying, “Everyone who makes pictures will be in Hellfire. A creature will be created for every picture that he made. It (the creature) will then punish him in Hellfire.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

When i watch the videos on bayaan then these hadith play in my mind. I dont want to think bad bout the scholars that does video bayaan but these hadith comes n bad image about the scholars come Now Allah can forgive any one I Dnt no about myself cuz i myself trying to avoid pictures on phone as well trying to become a better muslim May Allah forgive me as well. Pleasr please help me Muslimah sister I worry about nikaah n if i said anything on kufr or shirk.