faarigh

Ambiguous word of talaaq

Q: My husband and I have had a lot of issues for the last 3 years. He gave me two proper talaq in November by saying, I divorce you. Then he reconciled. Again we had some differences and he said a couple of times that "tum meri taraf sey farigh ho". He also sent me two messages saying "you are free from my side and I am not interested in this relationship anymore". He messaged me that this was the last message from him. He then left the house and has been away for a month. Now he's saying that talaq hasn't taken place and I should apply for khula if I intend separation as he had no intention of leaving me despite all his messages and words. Where do I stand?

"Tum meri taraf se azaad ho" khene se talaaq

Q: Aik aadmi ne aik din larae ke doran apni biwi ko talaaq de. Is k aik saal ke bad aik dn phr usi admi ne namz prhny k bd ja,ae nmaz pe baith k apni bv ko Kaha k mai khuda aur us k rasool ko hazir nazir jan k khta hu k tm mre trf se Farigh ho 2 ya 3 dn ke bad admi ne phr es bt ka iqrar keya ke mai ne tumain khuda aur rasool ke nam pe faarigh kar dia. Aur mai apny pehly khy huay Alfaz pe qaim hu. Kia aisi surat mein is aurat ko tallaq ho gai he aor agr hogai h to kia wo aurat kisi aor se nikah kr skti he?

"Tu azaad ho" kehne se talaaq

Q: Mera masla yeh ha ke main ne ghar walon ki marzi k bina ja k shadi ki jiss mein sirf ladke ka bhai or walida mojood thi or nikaah k liye 2 molvie sahab they or aik 2 camera men or ladkiyan jo k ladke k bhai k dpst thi. Lekin meri taraf say gawah sirf ladke k aik dost ka naam likha tha jab k woh dost wahan nikaah k waqto jood nahi tha. Ladke k ghar walon ne lalach mein yeh nikah karwa liya tha ta k ladka baher chala jaye lekin halat bohut khaarab hote gaye or ladke ne aik bar "main tujhe talaq deta hoon" or dposri bar message per likh kar kaha k tu meri taraf say ab azaad ha khuda ki qasm" keh kar 2 bar talaq day di ha. Mujhe maloom karna ha kya yeh nikaah valid tha tha Astaghfirullah sirf zinna mein shumaar hua? Or kya us hisaab say yeh talaq bhi ho gayi? Kya talaq aik bar dena kafi ha ya teen bar dena zaroori ha? Ab mere waldain chahte han k mera nikah dobara sab k samne proper tareeqe say kar den lekon ab ladkay k ghar wale us ko kehte han k sirf is he shart per k agar woh foran tumhain baher bula len tab lekin ladka ab razi nahi hota q k us k nazdeek yeh nikaah hua he nahi q k gawah mojood he nahi they mere liye koi. Main bohut pareshan hoon ajeeb depression sa ho gaya ha. Mera dill kisi or mard say shadi k liye bhi nahi manta or khandan bhar mein kisi ko nahi pata. Main janti hoon mujh say bohut bari ghalti hui ha lekin ab samejh mein he nahi aa raha k mujhe kya karna chahiye or is sab situation k kya hall ha? Pehle to mujhe woh ladka wese pasand tha lekin main ne sache dill say nikah kiya bina kisi lalach k or abhi tak mere dill mein us k liye shohar jesa he rutba ha halan k us ne her tarah say contact he khatam kar diya ha mujh say. Please Allah app ko jazaye khair day mujhe guide kijiye k yeh sab jo hua or ab mujhe kya karna chahiye? Yeh sab main apne ghar walon say share nahi kar sakti. Or Mufti sahban say poochne per bhi dar lagta ha q k woh thore sakht hote han aise maslon per ghussa kar jate han or raha saha hosla bhi khatam ho jata ha. App say bohut himmat kar k pooch rahi hoon. Baraye meherbani meri situation ko samjh k bataiye.

Suspending the talaaq using the words "faarigh ho"

Q: I had a nikkah last month but didn't have rukhsati right now (means girl is at her parents home). Yesterday I had a fight with her and in anger I said "Tum meri tarf se farig ho agar yahi harkatin rakhti ho tu". These were my exact words. I realized that I have done biggest stupidity of my life and suddenly contacted a mufti from web. Described to him the exact situation and words. He said that you have given your wife " Talaq-e-Mullaq" (Conditional Talaq) means when this condition will be met, she will get divorce automatically. Now I am confused that when this condition will be met. Either very next time when she does this or more than once. At that time when I was saying these stupid words to her, I didn't have the intention that very next time she"ll get divorce if she do this, as also clear form my words "Tum meri tarf se farig ho agar yahi harkatin rakhti ho tu" I seek ur help regarding this sensitive issue as me and my wife are totally helpless in this situation.

Faarigh ka lafz talaaq me

Q: Mera sawal ha lagi dinu parlay just bast ha ab tu mujy pori baat b yaad nahi koi baat Ho rahi thi tu ma na apnay husband ko bola ma na b app ko space di hoiyi ha tu he replied ( tu ma na b farigh kerwaya how'a ha ma boli Zara lafz daikhay kaya matlab ho sakta ha tu kaha matlb hota ha tu Ho phir mein chup ho gayi) Abi ma kafi prashan hon ma na kafi mufti sa poucha. Please tel me.