Q: Meri Sadi ko 8 sal ho chuke Hai Mai apne husband se 6 sal se alag rah rahi hun apne parents k Ghar par. Mai apne husband se khula Lena chahti hun. In 6 salo Mai husband se Koi bhi contact and khrcha nhi liya Hai Hai lekin fir bhi vo khula nhi Dena chahte bol rahe tumhe jindagi bhar isi trah presan krta rahoga... plz mujhe koi Rasta bataye
Q: Mai shadi shuda hu. Mere husband divorce chahte h. Kal rat Maine khwab dekha ki meri dobara shadi ho rahi Hai unse. Tyariya chl rahi h. Ek room me ek bhains lakr bandhi gai jo tandurust aur achi shant thi, fir ek aur Lai gai wo bohot gussail lag rahi thi. Usko zibah karne ke liye le Jane lage to meri ammi boli ki seedhi Wali Ko leke jao. Unko LG Raha tha us dusri Wali Ko zibah krke kuch galat hoga. Mai sidiyo se utar rahi Hu par pahli shadi jaisi sajawat, jode nahi pahne h sabne. Mai bhi aam libas pahne hui hu. Mai sidiyo se utarne lgi to raste me khadi meri chachi hath me plate h usme kuch chane aur boondi ke laddo sath rakhe h aur wo mujhe laddoo tor kr khila rahi h. Pr Mai kafi fikarmnd hu ki is bar ke bad sab thik hoga ke nahi. Please mujhe btayen ki Mai kya Matlab samjhoo is khwab ka. Mai bohot uljhan me hu
Q: Is it permissible to take out riba in order to avoid becoming homeless? I am a revert muslimah that quit college to avoid taking out more riba but I have yet to find a job and will soon be homeless since there is no family or friends I can stay with. My student loans were large enough to support me the entire semester with a part time job but since im not in school I have no job (it was a student job) and no more money. The Qur'an is very clear on riba but what else do I do? I already asked for money from my local musjid.
Q: I have been married for nine years. My husband reverted to Islam before we married. He has been drinking and doing drugs since the day we got married. He keeps promising to stop but it never happens. He also keeps accusing me of having an affair (which is not true). The other problem that I have is that he wants to be intimate when under the influence. Most times a have to force myself because it makes me feel belittled and cheap. I have been to see our Imam and also had both my parents and his come and speak to him numerous times over the past 9 years but without any success. I have a 9 year old boy and a 5 year old girl. His behaviour has an impact on the kids as we always end up arguing and the kids are exposed to this. I try to the best of my ability to raise my children the Islamic way but he does not even want to go to mosque with my son or perform Salaah with us. The relationship is verbally and emotionally abusive. Is drug and alcohol abuse valid enough reason to apply for a fasakh? I have extremely unhappy.
Q: Ayk larki ko uss ka husband talaq nahi de raha ek saal se taluq bhi khatam kar liya hai uss ne. Koi rabta bhi nahi aur talaq bhi nahi deta kehta hai zaleel karna hai sari zindagi talaq nahi dunga. Kindly agar koi solution hai tou bata de.
Q: Mera mufti sahib se ye sawal ha ke ager mard kisi bhi sorat talaq nahi deta na he khula pe razi hota ha to orat kya kary?
Q: Mujhe aapse advise chahiye ke mera apny husband se khula lena behter hai ya osky ravaye me tabdili ka intezaar karon. Mery husband ne mujhse dosri shaadi apni or meri razamandi k sath ki or shaadi k baad mery sath sirf 12 din rahy. Phir wo UK chaly gaye jahan unki second wife or bacchy rehty hain. Allah ne unhain buhat dowlat or ezzat de rakhi hai, lekin phir bhi wo mujhe naan nafqa nahi dety, mery rehny ka kahin intezaam nahi kia. Jabky shaadi se pehly unhon ne mujhse or mery parents se yahi kaha tha ke wo mujhe apne sath rakhain gy. Ab na apny pas bulaty hai na Pakistan me khud apni koi rehayeash mujhe di. main shaadi k baad se apny waldeen k ghar me pardi hon. shaadi se phely jab unhon ne sirf meri tasweer dekh ker haan ker di thi. osky baad wo meri her zarorat ka khayal rakhty thy. lekin shaadi k baad mujhse hamesha jaan churdane ki koshish kerty hain,jab maine unse naan nafqa or apne rehny ki jaga ki baat ki tab se wo ye kehty hain main unhain pasand nahi hon, meri or unki family status ka koi match nahi hai etc. or ab tu had ye k last 10 months se na koi call na msg. whatsapp per akser online hoty hain lekin meri kisi baat ka reply nahi kerty. mufti sahab meri shaadi 40 saal ki age me bardi mushkil se hoi, ghurbat ki waja se parents jahaiz nahi dy sakty thy.es liye khobsorat hone k bawajood rishty waly haan nahi kerty thy. mery husband married thy. unhain shaadi se pehly es baat per koi aitraaz nahi tha k main ghareeb family se hon, lekin ab unhain main or meri family bori lagti hai. ab tu family ka her shakhs kehta hai k mujhe khula le leni chahiye. Lekin main hamesha ye soch ker ruk jati hon k her insaan k dil me Allah rehta hai k shayed unhain mera khayal ajaye k wo aisa ker k mery sath na-insaafi ker rahy hain, or phir meri life me sab theek ho jaye. mery husband mujhse 12 saal bardy hai. es waqt unki age 52 saal hain. shaadi k baad unhon ne jitni baar mujhse mubasrat ki osme bhi mujhe unka koi interest nahi nazar aya k wo mujhse satisfy kerny me koi dilchaspi rakhty hon. Ab main Married hone k bawajood bhi unmarried life guzarne per majboor hon. Mufti sahab plz mujhe advise dijiye k main kaya karon. kia khula lena hi mery masly ka hal hai, jabky meri or mery parents ki ghurbat or low status ab bhi apni jaga hai.
Q: Meri shaadi ku teen saal ho gaye shadi bas 2 mahine hi rahi. Mere shohar muje chhor kar chale gye waps nahi aaye aur talak bhi nahi de rahe. Teen saal se koi contact nahi he hmara mai apni maa ke paas rahti hu kya mai abhi bhi nikah me shamil hu meri ammi meri dusri shadi krwana chahti h hmari madad krne wala koi nahi he. Please koi masla btaye hme kya krna chahiye?
Q: I would like to go for a fasagh. As I am not happy and is afraid of my husband. He hurts me emotionally and physically. I am his second wife and most of the time he is with his first wife. We share a son together and he hardly has time for him. He has four other kids from his first wife and spends more time with them which hurts me as I can see the yearning in my sons eyes to spend time with his father as he is only three. I have embraced Islam almost 4 years ago and I have too google my religion as my husband does not salaah or even teaches my son. I don't know what more. He has never lifted his hands to me before but ever since he went on drug with the first wife he treats me and my son crap and hurts me. What can I do. I need help desperately. I have never went to the hospital or logged a case against him. I work and he sits at home.