depression

Cure for depression

Q: I have a problem regarding my health. I'm seriouly feeling I cannot concentrate on anything. There is something wrong in my heart. I'm just crying all the time. Please pray for me and the solution to my problem of feeling depressed. Everyone is telling me that everything is ok. I find myself stuck to one place. I get lot shiverings and joint pains, doctors are telling me that everything is ok. I don't find any solution to my problem.

Leaving out salaah due to depression

Q: I suffer from depression. Im a religious person and offer prayers five times a day and even tahajjud and read Quran with translation, but when I am depressed, I leave all this, miss prayers, mostly esha, I lose interest in prayers and don't offer most of them. What to do? There is nobody to ask me to offer prayer, what is the cure of this disease?

Depression

Q: I am a young Muslim male who is suffering from stress and hopelessness. I am a student of civil engineering and I live currently in the Netherlands since 2011. I find it difficult to live my life here. The language is difficult and I have no interest to go to school. Every morning I am depressed. Everyday I am in worry and depression. I am planning to stop my study and go to a country in Africa to do business inshallah. But there is a thing in my mind that tells me what if I go there and loose my business? What if I am going to regret about my study? etc... I am hopeless now I don't know what to do? Please, what should I do? Please give me some advice.

Feeling depressed

Q: I am struggling. Basically a boy came to see me for marriage a few months ago, he then rejected me, a similar situation occurd a month after and I was rejected again. This has had a major effect on my self-esteem. I feel down and depressed. I feel i'lll never get married. What duas do I pray to ease my situation. I made a mistake with my first proposal. I asked him questions that hurt his ego, he rejected me saying i'm too tall. This has been my biggest regret throughout my life. Please help!

How to feel positive

Q: I am pregnant. I Am happy Alhamdulillaah but also I feel very low at times. Maybe because of my rising hormones. My husband is really caring, still I expect more from him. Please suggest me how to feel better and positive. I do offer my prayers. I pray too but negativity is surrounding me. I was a very positive person. Please help.

Overcoming depression

Q: So sad with cancer and side effects of surgery which is swelling to the hands. Can't really get on with my life. Over thinking about it everyday. Wishing life could be back to normal as it was before. Depressed most of the time. Nobody to talk to and feeling lonely.

ZIndagi me har cheez se upset hona

Q: Mein life mein har chez se upset hun. namaz ada krty hun dua krty Hun mom upset ha mery husband se khush ni ha unhe lgta woh mery liye behatr ni aur bolty ha aur bolty mein unke baat ni maan rage toh mujh maaf ni krengy meiny unse kaha woh mery shohar ha jaise bhi ha mein unhe chor ni skty Allah ne rishta banaya ha toh ta umar in sha Allah nibahoungy ....aur normal hum bolty hai na ke hum andr se toot gye ha toh ek dafa mein upset thy meiny mera whtsap ka status "broken" likh dia tha jst aise ke mein khud andr se toot gye Hun jaise yahe intension se isy meri nikaah toh effect ni hua na cz meiny apke page mein ek wakia pada tha Jo Facebook se rltd tha toh ek wehm sa ha ap mera doubt clear krey na plz cz meiny broken likha tha khudke liye bus. Please sab clear kr ke jwb dena ke Jin Jin chezo se nikaah effect ni hota bus aur mery pas koi bada ni hota jise mein pouch sako ap madad krey aur reply zaror kijeyga mujhe.

Marital problems

Q: I have been suffering from depression because of guilt for the past 2 years. Now I am married but the marriage has always been rocky with abuse of all kinds. I started a job but did an unthinkable mistake. I got involved with someone but I ended it because I knew it was wrong. My husband found out because I didn't want to go in with the relationship. My husband found every possible way to humiliate me in public with friends family. He even went to the nearest musjid. I asked Allah Ta'ala for forgiveness, pleaded day and night. I asked my husband to forgive me. I came back home but he still didn't stop the abuse and he picks on me almost all the time. I am starting to suffer from depression and feel like taking my life. Please advise me.

Musalmaan mayoos nahi hona chahia

Q: Mujhe khwab ki tabeer jaani hai. Khwab ye hai k Mn khud ko bht baray samandar k kinaray dekhti hun .. shaam ka time hota hai .. mn bht azaad aur khush hoti hun aur samandar mjhy bht pasnd hai .. mn samandar k kinaray chal rhi hoti hun aur wahin aik pathar nazar aata hai mjhy .. mn wahan jaa kr beth jaati hun aur apne paun neeche samandar pe latka deti hun .. mjhy bht acha lg rha hota hai.. mere paun bheeg jatay hain sb .. phr aik dam se paani k saath black kaikray (crab) aana shuru ho jatay hain .. aur paani ki lehron k saath saath wo barhtay jatay hain .. aur mere paun k saath takranay lg jatay hain .. mn ghabra jaati hun.. kch mere paun pe uppar chalne lgtay hain aur mere chilatay hwe apne paun peeche hatati hun aur wahan se uth jaati hun.. is k bd aik aadmi nazar aata hai wo bh wahin hota hai .. mn us se bh ghabrati hwi wahan se door chali jaati hun aur aik jhonpri k peeche chup kr mn phr geelay kapre change krne lgti hun.. aur saath he ro rhi hoti hun.. lekin is pooray khwab mn .. mn udaas he thi .. jese pehle smandar k paas ayi wo bh udaasi mn.. bs yahi khwab tha apki meharbani hogi k ap mjhy iski tabeer bta den .. Shukria .. Allahfiz.. Fi Amanillah .. Plz dua kijyega mere aur mere achay naseeb k lye .. jo mere haq mn behtar ho Allah mjhy wo ata kren .. Ameen ..