communicating

Nikaah se pehle larki se baat karna

Q: Mera rista ho gaya he mere mama ke beti se aur mere aur uske family ke sabhi loog se khus hai aur raazi bhi hai aur mai bahi rah kar padha bhi hu to mai usse phle se hi baat karta rahta tha phone pe bhi aur ab hum dono apne ghar ki problem khushi ek sath mil kar solve karte hai real baat ye h ke hum ek dusre ko love bhi karte h to kya m us ladki se shadi se phle phone baat kar sakta hu mai abhi qatar m hu aur jab m yaha se jauga tabhi hamari shadi hogi Hazrat mai ye jaanna chahta hu ke sabke razi hone ke baad bhi kya m nikah se phle usse baat nahi kar sakta.

Communicating via one's sister before marriage

Q: A girl is engaged to a guy, her nikaah will be after few months. The guy's sister is close friend of the girl. So is there anything wrong if the girl asks her friend who is the guy's sister to convey him some deeni demands that she has from her future husband? (like the girl wants her husband to get involved in work of tableegh and wear Islamic dresses and few other demands). Similarly, is there anything wrong if she put forth these demands to her future husband via his sister?