In which situation can one disobey his parents?
Q: In which condition we can disobey our parents?
rights of parents
Maa baap ki khidmat
Q: Mara masla ye hy k hum 2 bahi or 3 behn hy. Mary dono bhai ki death hogai hy. hum 3 no behny married hyn. ma bhai ki death k bd apny parents k sth rehti hu. walid sahab ghussa k taz wo choti choti bato pr mjhy or husband ko galia daty hy 3 4 bar husband ghar chor k chly gay or mjhy 2 dafa talaq bhi da chukhy hyn. mary parents cardiac pt hy. Abu k dil k 3 valve bnd hy. ma unko nhi chor skti. husband kehty hy jasy tumhari 2 no behny alag rehti hy tum bhi alag ghar ma chlo. mari smjh nhi ata kia kru. jub bhi Abu ko ghussa ata hy wo bolty hy mary ghar sa nklo. jub k ame bhi zaeef hy us kaam nhi hota. kia kru?
Taking care of one's aged mother
Q:
1. Please advise on the following matter.
A person was looked after by their grandmother from birth to until their grandmother died.At the age of 13 the person learnt that their mother did not want them at birth.The mother in the meantime married a Tamil man who after some time became muslim.The mother had another child and chose to look after the second child and felt uncomfortable around the first child.As time went on still staying with the second child who married a Christian lady and chose to be Christian the mother still stayed with child number 2. Many years after child number 1 married and migrate overseas due to being unemployed. Child number 1 benefited because the mother was working and had her house.As time went by child number 2 managed to transfer the house onto their name and now when the mother is old does not want to look after her.The mother on the other hand refuses to stay anywhere else as she has devoted her whole life to child number
2. What is the obligation of child number 1 as they reside overseas. Inshallah please advise on this important matter.
Relationship with parents who are non-Muslims
Q: In Islam, it is not permissible to have a close friendship with non-Muslims. What should be the behaviour towards parents and siblings who are not Muslims?
Visiting one's parents without the husband's permission
Q: Does Islam give a daughter a right to visit her sick parents without her husbands permission?
Fulfilling the rights of one's father
Q: We have been married for 42 years. Her father objected and still to this day refuses to speak to me despite me extending my hand many times. He did not attend the weddings of our children even though they went to ask him personally. My wife recently went to meet him against my wishes - she says she has a right because it's her father, is this allowed?
Living separately
Q:
1. What is the ruling on separate living for a married son with his wife from his parents, given that the son is the only male child and the couple had undergone love marriage?
2. To whom are the duties and responsibilities of a married man more, his wife, children or unmarried siblings?
3. If a married daughter is not permitted by her husband to visit her parents provided that her parents dont have a male child, what can she do?
4. For a working married lady whose parents have no male child and source of earning, is she required to give some share of her salary towards parents despite the fact that her husband is not willing to do so?
Serving one's mother
Q: I am the only child left from three siblings. 6 years ago my wife any myself made a decision to move from Cape Town to Gauteng along with our 3 kids. They are aged now 14, 8, 9. My dad passed on two weeks ago which is leaving my mom alone in Cape Town she is disable and not working. I want to know what does Almighty Allah and the Quran order me to do as my wife is refusing to move back to Cape Town and I want to move as I am not happy in Gauteng in any case. I want to move back to look after my mom. She needs me. In my view a wife is replaceable but my mom not. My wife and myself don’t have a “healthy” marriage in either case. Help me I do not know what to do I cannot sleep or concentrate nor do I eat. This is eating me up.
Joining ties with one's mother
Q: It's been almost 6 months that I don't speak to my mother and I need advice.
Serving one's parents
Q: Is it permissible in Islam to join the army if your parents are still alive?